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Dazed · 5th Sep 2008, 07:48 PM

ok so i was talking about kids to my brothers wife.
she is bi so i wanted to know what she would do if her kids were gay.
she said id beat the hell out my son.
i was like whats that going to do.all he will do is hate you.

but yea i just dont know how a bi person could be a homophobe.
its confusing.

Mind Freak · 5th Sep 2008, 07:57 PM

She sounds like a retard.
Did her parents beat her when she came out?

**Gerry** · 5th Sep 2008, 07:58 PM

Wow that's horrible. I really hope she didn't mean that. No one deserves to be beaten based on their sexuality. I hope she was only kidding -- but the way you made it sound, she probably wasn't.

5th Sep 2008, 08:00 PM

thats not odd thats sad and terriable... crack it into her that if she beats them then she is a bad person! lol-kinda

beckyg · 5th Sep 2008, 08:06 PM

I hope she's never blessed with the joy of children.

xballetxbeautyx · 5th Sep 2008, 08:09 PM

It wasn't sarcasm? How weird.

Noah · 5th Sep 2008, 09:00 PM

Ummm....she has issues

5th Sep 2008, 09:16 PM

Yeah thats messed up!

Wander · 5th Sep 2008, 10:13 PM

You know it's a serious topic when Becky says something like that, but I agree. Very few children deserve to be beaten by their parents, certainly not based solely on their orientation. That's just ridiculous.

Beth · 6th Sep 2008, 04:42 AM

headcase!

-Michael- · 6th Sep 2008, 05:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Gerry

Wow that's horrible. I really hope she didn't mean that. No one deserves to be beaten based on their sexuality. I hope she was only kidding -- but the way you made it sound, she probably wasn't.

Matin deserves a beating, but not because of his sexuality

aha

I think this is pretty mental.
I can even begin to understand why she would say that.

Dazed · 6th Sep 2008, 08:24 AM

she has issues.her dad ditched her for this bleach blonde thing that calls herself a woman.but its mostly just plastic.

but still i dont want her havin kids if thats the way she is going to treat them.
she said its ok for girls to be gay cuz its hot
not for guys.i happen to find boy love very cute.

even my brother said she would never touch his kid like that and i always thought my brother to be a touch homophobic.i guess not and my mom said she wouls take her kids from her if she ever beat them.

lodiug · 6th Sep 2008, 10:13 AM

People will often hate something that they don't or don't want to understand. But that woman is nuts! I hope she has 20 gay and lesbian children....and when she hits one of them, the whole pack attacks her, just like an army!! *evil laugh*

Dazed · 6th Sep 2008, 04:16 PM

haha i like the thought of a gay army.

6th Sep 2008, 07:50 PM

well butter my butt and call me a biscuit that is terrible and i can not stand a Hypocrite that just pissss me off *grrrrrrrr*

lodiug · 7th Sep 2008, 09:10 AM

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Originally Posted by JayC

well butter my butt and call me a biscuit that is terrible and i can not stand a Hypocrite that just pissss me off *grrrrrrrr*

What kind of butter???

**Lexington** · 7th Sep 2008, 12:11 PM

She's bisexual? But she'd beat her children if they were gay? Uh...why?

Lex

7th Sep 2008, 12:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Lexington

She's bisexual? But she'd beat her children if they were gay? Uh...why?

Lex

Actually she'd beat her SON if he were gay.
If my first child we a girl and she turned out to be a lesbian I'd be completely fine with it. But on the other hand, ewww...vaginas!

Dazed · 7th Sep 2008, 03:07 PM

i jus think the word vagina is gross.
i like it..but it jus sounds weird.

5th Sep 2008, 07:48 PM	#1
Dazed Banned Gender: ladyfella Orientation: MaddyBensexual Out Status: out to all :] Location: Richmond VA Age: 24 Posts: 2,189 Join Date: Mar 2007	how odd ok so i was talking about kids to my brothers wife. she is bi so i wanted to know what she would do if her kids were gay. she said id beat the hell out my son. i was like whats that going to do.all he will do is hate you. but yea i just dont know how a bi person could be a homophobe. its confusing.

5th Sep 2008, 07:57 PM	#2
Mind Freak Hey y'all (It's a southern thang);D Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Uh? Bi! Out Status: HOLY COW [at least 10] WHOLE PEOPLE! ;) Age: 19 Posts: 755 Join Date: Jul 2008	Re: how odd She sounds like a retard. Did her parents beat her when she came out? __________________

5th Sep 2008, 07:58 PM	#3
Gerry We're all a little mad! EC Moderator Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Some people Location: Las Vegas Age: 24 Posts: 5,542 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: how odd Wow that's horrible. I really hope she didn't mean that. No one deserves to be beaten based on their sexuality. I hope she was only kidding -- but the way you made it sound, she probably wasn't. __________________ "Everybody's journey is individual. If you fall in love with a boy, you fall in love with a boy. The fact that many Americans consider it a disease says more about them than it does about homosexuality".-James Baldwin

5th Sep 2008, 08:00 PM	#4
Master Hade Guest Posts: n/a	Re: how odd thats not odd thats sad and terriable... crack it into her that if she beats them then she is a bad person! lol-kinda

5th Sep 2008, 08:06 PM	#5
beckyg PFLAG Mom Community Liaison Gender: Female Orientation: Straight Out Status: Out to everyone/Yes, parents come out too! Location: Middle of Oregon Age: 50 Posts: 7,572 Join Date: Mar 2007	Re: how odd I hope she's never blessed with the joy of children. __________________ "When we're free to love anyone we choose, When this worlds big enough for all different views, When we're all free to worship from our own kind of pew, Then we shall be free" ~ Garth Brooks

5th Sep 2008, 08:09 PM	#6
xballetxbeautyx Heterodox Homosexual Full Member Gender: (.)(.) Orientation: Kinsey 5? Ish? Out Status: If you don't know, where have you been all my life Location: Midwest USA Age: 17 Posts: 1,719 Join Date: Mar 2008	Re: how odd It wasn't sarcasm? How weird. __________________ I can't go to Pigfarts! IT'S ON MARS. You need a rocketship! Do you have a rocketship, Potter? Look at this - it's Rocketship Potter! Starkid Potter! Moonshoes Potter! Traversing the galaxy for intergalactic travels to Pigfarts!

5th Sep 2008, 09:00 PM	#7
Noah Killer Queen Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Wilde Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Macon, GA Posts: 494 Join Date: Sep 2008	Re: how odd Ummm....she has issues __________________ Creativity is allowing yourself to make mistakes. Art is knowing which ones to keep. -Scott Adams

5th Sep 2008, 09:16 PM	#8
Loveless Guest Posts: n/a	Re: how odd Yeah thats messed up!

5th Sep 2008, 10:13 PM	#9
Wander Banned Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Parents, aunts, grandma, counselor, online friends Location: Central Alabama Age: 18 Posts: 2,360 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: how odd You know it's a serious topic when Becky says something like that, but I agree. Very few children deserve to be beaten by their parents, certainly not based solely on their orientation. That's just ridiculous.

6th Sep 2008, 04:42 AM	#10
Beth EC Addict Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Everyone but extended family Age: 21 Posts: 281 Join Date: Aug 2008	Re: how odd headcase!

6th Sep 2008, 08:24 AM	#12
Dazed Banned Gender: ladyfella Orientation: MaddyBensexual Out Status: out to all :] Location: Richmond VA Age: 24 Posts: 2,189 Join Date: Mar 2007	Re: how odd she has issues.her dad ditched her for this bleach blonde thing that calls herself a woman.but its mostly just plastic. but still i dont want her havin kids if thats the way she is going to treat them. she said its ok for girls to be gay cuz its hot not for guys.i happen to find boy love very cute. even my brother said she would never touch his kid like that and i always thought my brother to be a touch homophobic.i guess not and my mom said she wouls take her kids from her if she ever beat them.

6th Sep 2008, 10:13 AM	#13
lodiug EC Addict Full Member Posts: 500 Join Date: Oct 2007	Re: how odd People will often hate something that they don't or don't want to understand. But that woman is nuts! I hope she has 20 gay and lesbian children....and when she hits one of them, the whole pack attacks her, just like an army!! evil laugh

6th Sep 2008, 04:16 PM	#14
Dazed Banned Gender: ladyfella Orientation: MaddyBensexual Out Status: out to all :] Location: Richmond VA Age: 24 Posts: 2,189 Join Date: Mar 2007	Re: how odd haha i like the thought of a gay army.

6th Sep 2008, 07:50 PM	#15
JayC Guest Posts: n/a	Re: how odd well butter my butt and call me a biscuit that is terrible and i can not stand a Hypocrite that just pissss me off grrrrrrrr

7th Sep 2008, 12:11 PM	#17
Lexington The gay gargoyle EC Advisor Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Colorado Age: 42 Posts: 12,371 Join Date: Dec 2007	Re: how odd She's bisexual? But she'd beat her children if they were gay? Uh...why? Lex

7th Sep 2008, 03:07 PM	#19
Dazed Banned Gender: ladyfella Orientation: MaddyBensexual Out Status: out to all :] Location: Richmond VA Age: 24 Posts: 2,189 Join Date: Mar 2007	Re: how odd i jus think the word vagina is gross. i like it..but it jus sounds weird.