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  1. RainDreamer

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    another group of LGBT people different than you being intimate?

    To clarify, there is a story behind this: My girlfriend, a transgirl who is lesbian, told me that she is totally fine with seeing lesbian and straight couple kissing, but she admit that she feel grossed out when 2 guys kissing. She said it is not because she discriminate them or anything, but it is just because somewhere in her mind it just doesn't registered guys as "sexual" in nature, the same way with "parents" are not "sexual" in her mind. So seeing 2 guys kissing would be like seeing her parents kissing sexually for her. That is why she feel grossed out, despite being in full support.

    Does anyone feel the same?

    As a pansexual transgirl, I can't really understand it. I am fine with everything.
     
    #1 RainDreamer, Aug 7, 2014
  2. Acm

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    No, nothing like that ever bothers me
     
    #2 Acm, Aug 7, 2014
  3. Tetra

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    No, that doesn't bother me at all either...
     
    #3 Tetra, Aug 7, 2014
  4. Candace

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    Nope. I just don't like PDA's in general, not who exactly is doing it per se. Otherwise, I personally have no problem with say: two girls making out or something. That doesn't gross me out in the slightest bit.
     
    #4 Candace, Aug 7, 2014
  5. thekillingmoon

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    Nope, I don't find kissing gross. I think it's cute when two guys kiss. I actually prefer seeing a same sex couple kiss than a straight couple.
     
    #5 thekillingmoon, Aug 7, 2014
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    No, not even the slightest bit.
     
    #6 Candace, Aug 7, 2014
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    No.
     
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    It doesn't bother me .
     
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    If they're really going at it then maybe a bit, but in that case it doesn't matter what kind of pairing. Otherwise, no.
     
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    Don't have a problem with straight couples, lesbians, or gay men kissing. Be warned though, whether you are straight, lesbian, or gay and you are kissing your partner, I may find that very hot...sooo I'm not for too much pda in general... that's just too much for me to handle! lol
     
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    I think PDA in general is gross. Doesn't make a difference what genders the participants are. When people are hardcore making out in public I get slightly grossed out. Kissing is cool with me as long as you know your limits. Once you get into your own car/home I don't care what you do.

    But if I were to see two men making out on a computer screen or TV, then no, I wouldn't be grossed out. It's just the PDA that gets to me.
     
    #12 the haunted, Aug 7, 2014
  13. timber

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    It doesn't bother me, I usually find myself wanting to watch it happen
     
    #13 timber, Aug 7, 2014
  14. RedMage

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    Nope, I just feel the soul-crushing loneliness inside myself when I see any kind of PDA.
     
    #14 RedMage, Aug 7, 2014
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    No I don't mind PDA. It only makes me uncomfortable when people are vigorously making out or whatever in public. A couple kisses though? nbd.
     
    #15 SomeLeviathan, Aug 7, 2014
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    not in the very slightest.
     
    #16 Sam.i.am1130, Aug 8, 2014
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    Not at all, as long as its in reason, can't help but be glad that they are happy and comfortable with their relationship. Just as long as its not massive make out and getting out of hand, nothing wrong with it.
     
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    Nope it doesn't bother me. Actually if I see two people who are the same gender kissing I think it's cute and great that they are comfortable enough to kiss in public
     
    #18 mobrien1993, Aug 8, 2014
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    I usually think it's cute. Unless it's not cute, in which case I think it's kind of a turn on.
     
    #19 Wuggums47, Aug 8, 2014
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