My boyfriend just told me a new girl at his job is saying she misses him,comes by him a lot ,giggles what he says. I feel jealous so why do I feel jealous ? I never had a boyfriend and now I have a boyfriend and now I feel jealous . I feel like I'm going to lose my boyfriend , he doesn't know she's Flirting or not . It's flirtng what do I do???
Jealousy is a natural thing when you really care about someone. There's not much you can do about other women flirting with your boyfriend, but it's important to trust him that he won't act on it. That's the hard part. What's worse than your situation is when you find out that your boyfriend is the one doing the flirting. With someone other than you. Not saying that that's what's happening here, but just showing you that it could be worse. Don't worry about feeling jealous. Just don't let it ruin your relationship. Don't become obsessive and possessive of your boyfriend. Give him some space and let him deal with it. He should man up and tell this woman that he's unavailable.
Well I can tell you what I wouldn't do... (Not saying you do or would do this) I wouldn't start making demands about how he acts, who he talks with, or what he does at work. I wouldn't make a big deal every time there is an office event, because she is apart of the office too. I wouldn't always make it a point to bring her up. I wouldn't constantly put your jealousy in his face. Finally, I wouldn't make the workplace awkward or guilty for him. Why these things? Because my GF did this and it made me want to throw myself through a plate glass window onto a row of Mortal Kombat 3 fatality pit wheels. All joking aside, if your BF hasn't given you any reason to doubt him, trust him. We appreciate it more than you know to have the freedom to not only make our own decisions, but how we go about handling our business. Office politics plays into things depending on the positions. My GF has loooots of guys who like to come by, they are constantly asking about "that guy in the picture," lol. I don't even care to inquire. I trust her. I just wish she didn't constantly have to make an issue out of the simple things at my work. I have a female associate who I am always talking with next door... I feel nothing for her other than a professional business relationship and someone to banter with. I don't even talk to my GF about my days anymore. He cared enough about you to tell you, which means he wants to be honest with you. If you get on his case about her, he might resent that (I did/do, but everyone is different).
If he didn't love you more, he would have been with her. He told her that he's taken, and now it's up to you to trust him.
Trust your boyfriend's judgement on this. If he truly loves you, nothing will come of it. And if all else fails, you can get your cutting knife out on her boyfriend-stealing ass :dry:
Sounds like you have a good man on your hands , If I were you I would trust him . He sounds like a keeper .
yea I know even to ugh we haven't seen each other yet the connection between us is fluid and strong it's weird. I do trust him I don't trust that girl ---------- Post added 13th Aug 2014 at 08:53 PM ---------- thank u and ur right ---------- Post added 13th Aug 2014 at 08:54 PM ---------- thank you for the advice I needed a guy's view too ---------- Post added 13th Aug 2014 at 08:54 PM ---------- I do trust him but not the girl ---------- Post added 13th Aug 2014 at 08:55 PM ---------- I do trust him not that girl ---------- Post added 13th Aug 2014 at 08:56 PM ---------- thank you for this advice and he did tell her he's taken and he's avoiding her
Hi there! If you trust your boyfriend and he has already said that he is taken and is avoiding her, that's all that matters. Don't make it more than it is because otherwise you will run the risk of not being able to let go of it.
