Is it only men who have a fear of turning the big ones, 30, 40, 50 etc.. My father has been through all those mid life crisis at each of those ages and even now a friend I grew up with is turning 30 just before myself next year and he has issues with it.. I on the other hand have no issues at all.. It is a number, just a number and even if you are straight, gay, bi or anything else.. It is just a number.. You don't need to be scared of a number just enjoy your life and not worry about your age.
Don't feel bad! You have many positive years ahead. And it's not like people stop loving you or wanting you at 30.
Yeah. you are probably right. There's nothing much we can do about that number anyway. It just adds up every year. It's a good reminder though of our mortality. Therefore we must do the things we always wanted to do without procrastinating.
Although I'm bi and not gay I can say that life after 30 (I'm 33) isn't bunch different to life in late 20's. Any difference is all in your head. Happy days
the future is terrifying i wish we never focused on the idea of age and years and aging and instead time passed vaguely for us as we aged
