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Old 12th Sep 2008, 05:45 PM   #1
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Default Meeting people when you're not out.

Idk how to meet girls. I'm not out and not ready to be out to my friends or family. How can I meet a girl???
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Old 12th Sep 2008, 05:53 PM   #2
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Default Re: Meeting people when you're not out.

Well...sadly, it's near impossible if you're not out.
I mean, if nobody knows you're bi, nobody's gonna even think to flirt with you for fear of rejection.
You're going to have to come out to at least a few people if you want a relationship with a girl. I mean, you can't exactly date a girl for long without coming out.
You could go to a gay bar or something, to meet a girl without anyone knowing.
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Old 12th Sep 2008, 06:03 PM   #3
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Gay bars, gay youth groups etc. If you're not out, it's probably best to go meet people you don't know yet, where you know they'll be gay. The good thing aboot these is that you get a whole load of new friends who accept you for you, build up your confidence and hopefully make it easier to come out to others in the future.
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