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Meeting people when you're not out.

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by ColbieMarie, Sep 12, 2008.

  1. ColbieMarie

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    Idk how to meet girls. I'm not out and not ready to be out to my friends or family. How can I meet a girl???
     
  2. jazzrawr

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    Well...sadly, it's near impossible if you're not out.
    I mean, if nobody knows you're bi, nobody's gonna even think to flirt with you for fear of rejection.
    You're going to have to come out to at least a few people if you want a relationship with a girl. I mean, you can't exactly date a girl for long without coming out.
    You could go to a gay bar or something, to meet a girl without anyone knowing.
     
  3. pirateninja

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    Gay bars, gay youth groups etc. If you're not out, it's probably best to go meet people you don't know yet, where you know they'll be gay. The good thing aboot these is that you get a whole load of new friends who accept you for you, build up your confidence and hopefully make it easier to come out to others in the future.