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How do you like to end a first date?

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  1. Radioactive Bi

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    So, you finish a first date. You like the person and are seriously considering a second date. How do you like to part company? Do you just give a hug. Perhaps a kiss on the cheek. Or do you go for a full blown kiss on the lips? Or anything else?

    So, how do you like to finish your date?

    Also, just for fun, same question but with someone you don't feel you would go on second date.

    Happy days :slight_smile:
     
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  2. Hexagon

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    Never had one.
     
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    If I'm not sure about a second date I'd give him a hug. Probably would do the same if I wouldn't want a second date, just to be polite.

    If I was sure I want to see him again and think he feels the same... why not go in for the kiss? :slight_smile:
     
    #3 timo, Aug 30, 2014
  4. Fallingdown7

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    Now personally I'm against the concept of 'dating' but say I wasn't, I'd probably do a handshake. No kissing on the first date for me, or....well, even a hug is too far for my liking.
     
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    Realistically, a hug if the date was not crap.
     
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    If I liked him and got a good vibe from him, I'd go for a kiss.

    If I wasn't interested in a second date, then a simple handshake would probably be enough.
     
    #6 awesomeness, Aug 30, 2014
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    Depends on the outcome of the date! :lol: Perhaps it's obvious that the person doesn't like me, then trying to kiss that person is not a good idea.. It would be more like.. Shaking hands.

    So it could be anything. I would usually hug.
     
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  8. asdfghjk

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    preferably wth a "bye"


    not a joke please let me know if you are leaving
     
    #8 asdfghjk, Aug 30, 2014
  9. Yosia

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    Usually by sacrificing them to the high gods. ^.^
     
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    I wouldn't mind a hug if I liked the person. I wouldn't initiate a hug myself though, don't have the confidence for that. Kissing would be too much for me on a first date. It depends on how long I've known the person cause you could know someone for a long time before going on a date with them. In that case different rules apply, still I wouldn't go too far.
     
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    I think you cannot tell in general.
    It depends, and probably you give it a few thoughts before you meet.
     
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    A kiss on the cheek and possibly an exchange or phone numbers.
     
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    never been on a date with a dude.
     
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    Just kidding, I'm not that kind of person :lol:. Personally, I'd end any first date with a handshake (never been on a date). If he wants to hug, I'll go for it.
     
    #14 AlamoCity, Aug 30, 2014
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    my last one a few weeks ago went alright we liked the same stuff & knew another date would happen so we ended with a hug and a quick kiss . on our 3rd date now quite like him.
     
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    A hug, followed by a kiss on the cheek :slight_smile:.
     
    #16 Candace, Aug 30, 2014
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    If it goes well and you have good vibes definitely leave with a hug.

    ---------- Post added 30th Aug 2014 at 11:36 PM ----------
    :roflmao:
     
    #17 PatrickUK, Aug 30, 2014
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    I AM that kind of person (or was, when I was single) and like either this or (better yet) breakfast together the next morning. :thumbsup:

    Todd
     
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    Makeout session lol
     
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    By showing him my personal graveyard where I buried all the failed dates, followed by much smooching. :kiss:
     
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