So there's this girl I really like, and I want to know of she likes girls too, but I'm not sure how to ask her without it being awkward/impolite. Help?
Subtly bring it up in conversation, play a question game. "Who are your celeb crushes?" See who she lists off
"Are you a lesbian?" Learn to be direct when you're young, it will save you years of your life. Those who can't handle being direct with you are not worth keeping around.
I strongly disagree. That can cause a lot of stress for those who aren't ready to come out, and it would be worse if other people hear the question being asked. They may or may not say the true answer, and the act of asking can make others suspicious even if they say no. edit: I think the best thing is to come out first and later say you like her.
I've been in this scenario before. Just keep asking if they have a girlfriend/boyfriend and try to subtly bring that topic up in the conversation. Don't try to scare them though. Act relaxed and calm.
This. I think being open and direct is a good thing but you also have to respect someone's privacy as well. I think the "Who are your celebrity crushes" as one suggested here is a good idea and it really depends how close with you are with this girl and if not, try getting to know her more.
