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bahhh somebody helpppp

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Emmanuella, Sep 5, 2014.

  1. Emmanuella

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    I just matched with a few girls tonight on one of those dating apps... im now chatting with a couple of them buy I SUCK at it. What do I say... people THROW lines at me... like literally.... anything?!?!!

    I used to be good at this, I swear... many dates etc and they used to tell me what a good conversationalist I was.

    Now. Nothing. I got nothing....

    :sleep:

    Like, literally. I'm clueless....i need help.
    I've regressed in conversation ability.
     
  2. C06122014

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    I'm gay!!! I doubt I could help haha cx immmmmm soooo sorry!!! :tears:
     
  3. asdfghjk

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    i am bad at this too! maybe if they exist go back and read convos from when you used to rock it?!
     
  4. Pret Allez

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    Dating is not about reading magic incantations.

    How about go with "Hey, how was your day? What do you like to do in your free time?"

    ...And this is why I'm single.... :frowning2:
     
  5. asdfghjk

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    *flips through notes* ASK THEM QUESTIONS. DONT EVEN TALK ABOUT YOURSELF JUST KEEP ASKING QUESTIONS. UNLESS IT IS TOO MANY. THEN STOP.
     
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    Your sister speaks truth. Asking questions shows you care and lets them know you're interested. It also shows you're not self-centered.
     
  7. asdfghjk

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    heh.... i am the pro after all *pushes glasses up face* *goes home and sobs because i am not the pro at all*
     
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    Don't overthink it, when chatting online you can be pretty direct. Answer all their questions, ask them some yourself without going too deep and always end up "sounding" entertained. It's online, no one really cares what you write, you can always chug it up to sarcasm.
     
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    You could always say something like "So would you like to get some coffee? I prefer to talk in person than through chat". Or something. It makes an excuse for why you're awkward online while moving things forward.
     
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    *hi5*

    im horrible too. Agree with the posts above but also i think its good to mention a little about yourself otherwise they don't have a reason to be intrigued?
     
  11. Emmanuella

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    Haha thanks guys you ae all amusing...

    Hmm, I actually ended up fallI g asleep after like, 2 or 3 messages. Good sign, of them wrote back!!