Lesbians kissing is disgusting

Sounds like somebody is over compensating for something... I mean seriously unless there is a reason most things result in a neutral why should I care attitude, not a "KILL IT WITH FIRE" type reaction of disgust.

 

I don't get how someone who can watch a gay couple kiss doesn't like watching a lesbian couple kiss.. I agree with Kai, I think she is over compensating as well.. Unless it is some kind of porn I am watching, I do tend to look away whenever I see anyone kissing, regardless of the couple being heterosexual or not, just kind of a privacy thing for me, wanting to respect their privacy and not look like I am gawking but I don't have issues watching straight, gay or lesbian couples kissing in porn scenes.

 

cannot. comprehend.
how can you not like 2 girls kissing?

I may be biased.

 

In my opinion, it's disrespectful to say that. Many homophobic people say two men kissing is disgusting, she just said it about woman.

 

This is normal programming for my generation. X that is! It is frustrating! This year a 19yo kissed me (by surprise as I didn't know him! In Home Depot parking lot! ) I freaked out. As I hadn't been kissed on the lips by a man since I cross dressed a good 20years ago. He wanted to pick me up! At that time Chance my son through Michael was 17yo Mine from 12 to 17) . So give people late 20's on a pass because it was completely not tolerated when I was coming up. I was 3years older than Michael and still seem to get hit on by teenagers, black men, and guys in their 20's most? A lady just doesn't reveal her age, though I am eternally 16yo! LOL, I am over 4 decades old! I now have 20 grey hairs! Too much unhappiness and drugs since last November, though I clearly am not a teenager! Chance was totally open, where Michael made me his cousin to everyone until last year which destroyed both of us as while writing this on a cracked phone on one of my last night's in my house of 9 years, and he lives in a cheep motel with the one framed photograph of us I packed in his clothes. The next man I have been through HELL with ripped my bedroom curtains down and duck taped tinfoil over the windows then nailed three flat sheets and a comforter and still was convinced people could see us. I am moving to Ft. Smith, Arkansas with what fits in my new used car Madeusia a Volvo S80 and the few things I have put into a 10x10 storage... intolerance is a fact of life for people my age and destroys lives, and I can only hope these younger generations have it easier and learn tolerance! My only chance is to he have my body fixed!, or become a lesbian! Just be tolerant of hate and live respectfully of others is the best I.I can advise. Teaching others by example rather than argument. June

 

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I agree with the others, it is rather disrespectful, and sorta adds question to the whole overcompensating thing like Kai LD said.

 

I don't remember where, but I read something that said women are more likely to be bothered by lesbians than men, and men are more likely to be bothered by gay men than women.

 

It makes sense though, when you think about it... I don't think it's bad to be bothered by it, as long as you don't "hate it". If she wants to turn away when lesbians kiss, so be it.

 

Yeah, when you can't come up with a reason why you find the actions of other people "disgusting," it's probably time to shut the **** up...

 

My sister told me the same thing when I was about 18...before she knew about me. It really put up some walls between us that we're still working through. But she's not a hateful or homophobic person, really. She had limitations at that time...may have been affected by a particular incident/sight she wasn't ready for at the time, for all I know. We all have limitations, though, so it's best to be forgiving about the limitations of others...even though expressions of those limitations can cause us pain in the moment.

I strongly suspect she didn't mean harm by her statement...and if you stay friends, she may well come to regret what she said, knowing that it must have hurt you.

 

Before I had begun this process of self-acceptance, I felt strange about seeing two guys kissing...I would not have said that to a gay man, however, as that would seem insensitive. But I did find it odd. Now, though, I think about it every single day and fantasize about pashing my current crush so much of the time it's embarrassing. I've gone completely the other way. It's like one of those 'road to Damascus' situations. I used to find it a bit off-putting when I saw it, now I love seeing it. I think to myself, 'good on them for expressing their affection for each other'.

 

it's not a problem that she doesn' like looking at girls kissing if it's not her cup of tea
so be it.but she shouldn't have told you, that is just plain rude

 

Oh, I know a woman that sure would change her mind about it... She was "straight", of course, and so was I back then ... So maybe she will find "straight" women kissing tolerable?

Now seriously, if she didn't said it in a "horrible way" it is a good sign that she was trying to be respectful. Her reasons for not liking it... I don't know maybe she really tried and didn't liked it, who knows? Or maybe she is afraid of trying and enjoying it, which could trigger things she is not prepared to deal with.

The strange part is that she is ok with gays kissing (homosexual men). I think it is more socially acceptable for a young woman to tolerate lesbians kissing ("cute/innocent") than gays kissing, isn't it?

 

I have no problems with lesbians kissing in public. Then again I get jealous as fuck when I see any couples kissing in public.

 

My thoughts exactly. :lol: