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Bear lovers?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by JustJJx, Sep 10, 2014.

  1. JustJJx

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    Any other bear lovers out there? ^_^
    No idea why, i just love bears! I love the body build, the facial hair and its even better for me if they are tattooed or have a vintage haircut :wink:
    Just to clarify, i'm talking about gay bears here...not the big fucking animal haha
     
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    Ah, that last line put an end to the confused look I had on my face whilst reading it imagining a bear/human relationship!
     
  3. JustJJx

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    Hahaha, exactly the reason i added that in :wink:
    Not everyone will know about this i guess :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
    A bear is a big muscular or chubby guy with body hair and facial hair!
     
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    I do love bear body types I actually find it more appealing compared to those really well-built muscular men.
     
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    i do!! they're awesome and i do appeal to them a bit more often then others. i think i'm considered a bear myself, not too sure
     
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    I've never seen or heard a consistent clarification of what a Bear is.

    I'm tall, solid/broad/a little over weight, hairy all over, have a beard (most of the time) and shaved or cropped hair on the head, but most guys who are attracted to bears aren't physically attracted to me (as far as I've experienced).

    Is there a minimum age to be a bear?
    Or a certain height to width ratio?
    What's the difference between a cub and a bear?
    Is there an "attitude" that comes with it?
    Do you have to be interested in leather etc..?
     
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    i think that's an accurate description to what a bear looks like. i actually would want to become a bear when get older. a panda bear! ^__^
     
  8. JustJJx

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    IF i had facial hair i'd be a bear no question!
    From what i've read from Bear models and stuff the Bear attitude is mainly about being a nice huggable person who loves them-self!
    Nah i think the leather is just personal choice haha
     
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    I could like anybody, within reason, so, sure. I could love a bear.

    I must admit though, I'm very sad, that this wasn't about the animal!
     
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    I absolutely love bears... animal ones. My favorite is brown/grizzly. Somehow I find Panda (while they are not really belong to Ursus family) less appealing than their smaller cousins (Red Panda).

    For human ones... depends on personality.
     
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    I like Otters; slimmer bears, than bears. Don't really like fat, but I do like hairy guys.
     
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    Yeah, kind of. Depends on their body shape more than anything. People of a stocky but somewhat muscular build are very hot. Kind of like the rugby player build, I guess - slightly overweight but not fat.
     
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    You sound like the ideal cub.

    I consider myself a bear. Although I don't quite fit that role, it has to do more with a rejection of gay "ideal" slender, defined, smooth, smartly attired. Bears have a more relaxed attitude toward body and hair. As I understand it goes something like this:

    Cubs - young bears
    Bears - hairy, stout, bearded
    Otters - slender, hairy bears or cubs
    Wolves - older, bear hunters
    Grizzly Bears - older, dominant bears
    Polar Bears - white, sometimes fair-haired bears
    Ginger Bears - red heads
    Panda Bears - Asian Bears
    Black Bear - African-American bears
    Musclecubs & Musclebears - big, big gym rats
    Chubs - softer, bigger bodied
    Chasers - those attracted to bears

    Bears usually adopt a kind of working class look: camo, jeans, tees, sports gear and a ubiquitous baseball cap; also cowboy gear, some leather. This being the case I'm the Polo Bear in the Ralph Lauren Dept. It embraces the more masculine traits not valid in the "gay ideal', however, it has an ideal inclusivity...age, size, hairiness, status are supposed to be overlooked in a broader vision of brotherhood and community or so I've read.

    Hope this helps. There seem to be very few bears on this sight. Glad to see some inquiries into it.

    Almost forgot. "Woof" is a universal greeting of approval and interest.
     
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    Omg. I have so much to learn. I was only familiar with the first three terms.
    Anyway, yes, bears are nice. :love:
     
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    I haven't met another bear irl but I heard they are the most loveable and nicest bunch <3
     
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    A little I guess. The kind of bears I like are the ones with a lot of sass but can also be masculine at certain times. Though I wouldn't want to be with one unless I really like them.
     
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    I do love bares especially like rugby players find them a massive turn on think it would be my ultimate fantasy to shower with a whole team:icon_redf
     
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    i hate the term "woof".....i'm not a dog, meow.......

    tscott basically explained it. they're the "kindest" of the bunch
     
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    I find bears hot. I realised that I have the potential to be a panda if I can actually get fat and not shave body hair. Woof
     
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    I've come to appreciate bears a lot more over time.