Apparently the girl at this video got tired of the question and so here she makes a rant https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=683603278389080&id=100002182421338
I guess I don't get offended cause I asked my best female straight friend how to give a guy head and what was so great about it. People are curious and it's just sex talk, people talk about it all the time so no biggie to me!
On the topic itself, I think if you have to ask how two girls have sex, then you must have a very boring and terrible sex life yourself. Most women don't get off from a penis
I'm not really offended by the question, I assume the people asking it are just curious but at the same time, it does seem like they're a bit lacking in imagination... It's not too hard to imagine how two girls would do it.
The one thing that's annoying about this question , is men ask this even after they seen or been told how two girls have sex. Some women too, sometimes the question is used as an insult or people will ask just to know how you get down in bed. I used to think people just didn't know now I know why they ask all the time.
I think when you're just curious, It's not offensive. You just don't know. It only becomes offensive when people use the statement to be derogatory "Oh, they can't have REAL sex!"
I think that unless it is being said in a bad way, like as fallingdown7 mentioned, I think it is a valid question.. Someone who is straight might not have the mind set to go to that kind of place where they wanna think about it cause and they don't understand it cause they aren't gay themselves.. Before I began watching girl on girl porn, (and I know a lot of it is staged towards straight men but it has been informative for me as well) I had no idea how two women had sex so it was a learning curve for me as well.. Unfortunately not everyone especially straight people are gonna go to those measures to find out and satisfy their curiosity, so the only way they will possibly get to understand is to ask.. You can't be offended by genuinely curious people.. Only be offended by the people who say it's not Real sex.
Imo straight guys usually ask that because it's a sexual fantasy for them and it turns them on to hear about it in detail. That's why it's annoying and creepy. Sure if someone wants to share their personal life details with you, that's fine. Otherwise it's an inappropriate question to ask.
Someone asked me how gay guys have sex. I told them that one of our penises opens up and allows the other one to enter. I don't know if they believed me or not.
I suppose that specialy when the person asking it is a women, specialy an old lady, in that case is most understandable. Why ? Well, cause a straight guy probably at some point had seen lesbian porn, on the other hand a straight girl might feel umcomfortable with watching lesbian porn, so they might ask to get a quick direct answer without having to actually see it. Althought with guys there might be exceptions, in my case i begun watching porn late, and very rarely, and never searched for lesbian porn until very late. So i suppose there might be other guys who havent seen lesbian porn so some of them might be curious.
In my experience most men, gay or straight thinks a thing(usually penis) must enter some orafice to call it sex. For typical straight guy around here, two girls can't have sex. They need a man to fill the holes and show them eternal truth, women created to serve and please men... In this case gays don't count as men as they can get it up and put it in... even they are sterile so gay guys can't have children. I know I live in place which is painfully illogical.
:roflmao::eusa_clap The vagina may be a mystery to me, but even I have an idea as to how it works. Still though, I've seen some hilarious responses on the thread, this was my personal favorite though. I would have loved to see the look on the person's face when you told him. To be frank though, the women tend to get it worse then the men in terms of questioning their sexuality, because they believe that since the woman lacks a penis, there's no penetration, and no penetration to them means no sex.. to them..
You know, it wouldn't be so bad to be asked this, seeing as my experience has only been, "lesbians can't have real sex". Gee, mom and stepdad, you sure are knowledgeable in the ways of lesbian sex. -_- They seem to think they invariably know better just because they're older. Well, last I checked, I was the only queer in the house, so I'm pretty sure I know better in this case. Urgh, I just get so angry that they think they can make assumptions and claim them as fact without any basis! So, yeah, ask me about lesbian sex all you want, just don't assume you know better than me on my own sexuality!
I think straight guys are more rigid in general. I know gay men who say they've 'lost their virginity' to oral/frot, even if it isn't every gay guy out there, It's still more open-minded than most straight people. The idea that lesbian sex isn't sex though I think is steeped in historical sexism and the fact that women are property that exist only to serve men.