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Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Radioactive Bi, Sep 13, 2014.

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  1. Radioactive Bi

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    Question 1: If your partner asked if they could record you both having sex as a one off and promised not to share or show it to anyone, keeping it just for themselves would you do it?


    Question 2: Also, how about if your partner asked to take some nude pictures off you and again promised not to show or share?


    Happy days :slight_smile:
     
    #1 Radioactive Bi, Sep 13, 2014
  2. Yosia

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    I have trust issues so i dont know, if i had been with them for a long time and trusted and loved them fully then maybe.
     
    #2 Yosia, Sep 13, 2014
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    I wouldn't do that, unless there's a very good reason. Can't think of any good reason though.
     
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    Nope

    Thatisall
     
    #4 Sepina, Sep 13, 2014
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    I would deny, of course.
     
    #5 Anonymous777, Sep 13, 2014
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    I really struggle to say "No" to people so I suppose I'd probably end up agreeing to it.
     
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    Yes to both. I probably wouldn't even care if they shared it.
     
    #7 imnotreallysure, Sep 13, 2014
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    Sorry, but no.

    At least, that's how I see it now. Might be different if I'm actually in a relationship.
     
    #8 timo, Sep 13, 2014
  9. Chip

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    It really depends on how you feel about people seeing you nude.

    If you can honestly say you wouldn't care if anyone you know happened to see them, or be embarrassed if family or friends knew about them, then there isn't much reason not to go for it. But very, very often those 'only for me, never to be shown elsewhere' pics end up being shown or shared. Also, future career implications need to be considered. There are some jobs where such pics could seriously impact your future.

    If you really have not the slightest concern of any of the above, then go for it. There is no inherent reason you should be embarrassed or ashamed about being seen nude, or even having sex. But society still frowns on it so it is about weighing your feelings vs those of others.

    One last thought that often helps : if you have to keep it a secret... Don't do it.
     
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    Been there done that....I do wander where that tape ended up though because we lost it.
     
    #10 redneck, Sep 13, 2014
  11. Ouzo

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    No, if it "Somehow" got leaked out.. I'd feel so betrayed and violated.
     
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    I wouldn't do it.

    One of the reason being that I don't see the point (if you want to look at nude picture or pron, you may as well watch professional/beautiful ones...) The other reason is that I don't trust people enough to agree to that.
     
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    No! If someone managed to get a hold of it, I'd feel violated. With my paranoia, I would probably have to move out of country and change my name.
     
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    No I can't say I would ever want to do that at all.. Even if I trusted my partner 100%, there is still a risk of something happening, the tape being lost or stolen or someone else accidentally viewing it.
     
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    Nope. Too easy for that stuff to get leaked plus if we ended up having a crazy break up they could use them against me so...no
     
    #15 Randomcloud, Sep 13, 2014
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    I'd say 'no' to the tape unless we were married and I knew exactly where it was kept.

    Pictures I'd just say 'no' to, period.

    I've seen way too many of my gal pals nude pictures and videos posted up on the internet after a bad breakup.
     
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    I'm on the fence. I would have to be with someone for a loonnggg time to even consider it. However, the thought of watching myself have sex doesn't even really appeal to me, so making a sex tape is not something I've ever had a strong desire to do.
     
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    No for both

    The first one is kiinda understandable, but the second is just pedophile...
     
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    Never, that's potential blackmail material.
     
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