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Crush Issues

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by ZestyLion, Sep 14, 2014.

  1. ZestyLion

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    Okay, so here's the deal:

    I have a friend that I have a HUGE crush on and he doesn't know it. I don't know if he's gay or not, and I'd feel awkward asking him about it. He may be completely straight, completely gay, or just curious. I have no clue. Does anybody else have any similar experiences and/or advice? I'd greatly appreciate it.

    Thanks!
     
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    First thing's first: get his opinion on gay folks.

    If he's homophobic, there's a pretty big chance he's not gay and it's a good idea to not tell him about it.
     
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    Thanks for the advice! I'll try and ask him tomorrow. What do I do from there if he's okay with it?
     
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    I think that's really up to you. Maybe come out to him, and see what happens then?

    Hopefully he's not one of those people who will recoil and ask if you're attracted to them (even though in this case you technically are) but who knows? Maybe he's gay too :lol:
     
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    Cool, thanks for the help!
     
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    You're welcome. Good luck! Keep us updated, if you'd like.
     
  7. biffle50

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    Going through it right now. But I agree with everyone else