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sex therapist on youtube said every woman enjoy penetrative sex

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by stocking, Sep 16, 2014.

  1. stocking

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    So I was watching the view and the woman said that other women were just not trying hard enough or weren't getting themselves arouse for penetration .
    What do you guys think can all women enjoy penetration are we just not trying hard enough ?:confused:
     
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    There isn't much more to note about this except for the fact that it was on Youtube...
     
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    Please I want you to say what you think about what she said please Gen , I value your opinion .:icon_bigg
     
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    Childbirth must be very painful for her, if she has that many nerve endings in there. I know I don't.
     
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    I don't even know where to begin. She is clearly trying to push an agenda. I haven't done much research on the subject, but I am almost positive I have read stories that found that a majority of women could not be satisfied completely from penetration. Not to mention, why would women make up lies about not enjoying penetration? Especially heterosexual women.

    It is just another example of people pushing their personal views and desires on others. No different than the claim that lesbians need to experience penetration to understand their desires and be completely satisfied. No different than gay men needed to be versatile in a relationship to prevent themselves from "missing out". It's all simpleminded, "I know whats best for you and your life" bullshit.
     
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    She doesn't have kids she's in her early 20's

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    I agree, I always love reading your opinions on things :slight_smile:
     
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    I think It's bullshit. Even straight women sometimes don't like it, or don't like it as much as other sex acts. There aren't many nerves in the vagina
     
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    true
     
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    I think you are paying too much attention to idiots on youtube.
    Not everyone likes penetrative sex.
     
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    Alot of people on youtube claim to be things they aren't. I remember a youtuber that claimed to be a sexual health experience yet she admits to faking orgams until recently, she also said some transphobic stuff. I think she quite popular on youtube and goes on university tours even though her only qualification is youtube, if I go to a universitiy lecture on sex and sexual health their qualifications should be better than youtube. That is sad why is she so popular.
     
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    yeah youtube... there's your sign!

    That's a website that shares its space with grown men who want to have sex with ponies from a kids show...
    So yeah... to get real answers one must seek real voices.
     
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    She was also on tv giving sex tips just heterosexual though .
     
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    I am a sex therapist and i say woman only get off from komodo dragons. therefore it is true as i am a sex therapost and i said so.
     
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    Now, that's what I'm talkin' about. OH, YES. Komodo Dragons!

    Really, though, don't pay attention to self proclaimed "therapists." Advice like that will only lead to more sexual frustration. It's a pretty well-known fact that most women can't achieve an orgasm from penetration alone, and it's not because they're not trying hard enough to like it. As much as I would love to like beans, I just can't do it.
     
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    Reading the topic title alone:

    Ridiculous.
     
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    *funny air quotation hand gestures* therapist *end gestures*
     
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    Since everyone has quite different tastes, it can't be possible that everyone does. We're talking about a world with 7 billion people here.

    It's a simple concept in my opinion. :slight_smile:
     
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    There are quite a few good tutorials on youtube...
    there is also weird stuff.... but I don't touch that bucket... you can filter your search by typing a minus directly in front of an undesired keyword like -weird

    Generally speaking, to me is an example of discernment.
    People usually don't tell all lies... other people would recognize that and dismiss it. So its often some truth mixed with own perceptions.
    Many people imO sometimes make the mistake to dismiss something altogether if an inconsistency is found.
    Sometimes there are some good facts present which can be found with intuition.

    Her point is that penetration might be enjoyable. Now since she does not know all women, she obviously cannot state that for all women. Its up to every single individual.

    According to what I read, the clitoris is nervewise akin in size almost to a penis and runs parallel to the vagina, deep in the tissue. The gspot is touching on that.
    Another area is the cervix area, where there are a lot of nerves, too, and around that area, deep in the end of the vagina, and just below the cervix.

    According to old recordings, its best to stimulate the clitoris for an orgasm. After that, the other spots like gspot and cervix area become more pleasant to touch for many women.
    Some experience the release of pent up emotions, so its up to everyone how to handle that.
    There is a stimulation technique which alternates between gspot and clit stimulation, evoking deep contractions of the inner muscles, leading to a climbing arousal and a wave of orgasms, possibly blending into one big wave.

    Some women report liking stimulation of the cervix area, after having an orgasm beforehand. They like lightly pressed motions, like a kiss, not bumps, akin to a slap in the face. This also might evoke contractions of deep inner muscles, leading to a different sensation of orgasm, some women describe them as deeper.

    So its up to you.. pick your choice... explore... enjoy...
    all to be shared in love...
     
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    How can I like just never see bronies on youtube again? lol
     
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    Can someone please fire her?