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To the cashier in Cato

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by artist92, Sep 20, 2014.

  1. artist92

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    So I went with my sister to cato because she had to get some jeans. When we walk up to pay the cashier sees both of us and says "How are you ladies doing this evening?" my sister kid of laughed and I just stood there, I couldn't move. This wasn't like someone just saying it without thinking. She looked right at me, and I wasn't even wearing feminine looking clothing at all. As we left I turned and whispered thank you. This is the first time anyone has called me something other than male in person. I cant even begin to describe the feeling I have right now. This has easily been the best day of my life.
     
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    (!) I'm glad that you're happy :grin:. Did you thank her in return?
     
  3. asdfghjk

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    : , ) I don't think you even had to thank her honestly, in your pic you are female. Not even debatable. I wouldn't even think otherwise and she probably didn't either. Like I would say "thank you ma'am/have a nice day ma'am" without even noticing!

    Yay!!! I am glad you are happy too, I can't imagine how good that must feel C: (&&&)
     
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    That would be a wonderful boost in confidence for you, good to hear, I think you needed that quite a lot, I can see how this would be a big breakthrough for you, so I am very happy for you hun xx
     
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    It's so good to hear you happy! :slight_smile: I know you've been going through a really rough time. I'm really happy for you! (!)(!)(!)
     
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    Wow!! Great day!! :grin:

    So excited for you!!! (!):eusa_danc:eusa_clap
     
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    Thats really great! I remember when someone took me for a girl :3

    In relation to this, i read your post and then looked at your avatar and was confused because i thought you were a girl until i read your details xD
     
  8. Wuggums47

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    I'm pretty lucky that way too, one time I even got called a lady while I was wearing mens clothes with a tie.
     
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    That's fantastic! It's moments like this we need to remember =). Hopefully you can go to bed with a smile on your face tonight.
     
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    That's so awesome! I'm happy for you (*hug*) (!)
     
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    Ha I did the same thing. Kinda confused at first. But it's great that the cashier recognized you for who you truly are. Congrats :grin:
     
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    Awesome! :slight_smile: I'm glad for you.