If your a black woman that dates outside your race , your a traitor

I'm confused. Those people. They seem like...... Idiots...
Congratulations idiots, you are now promoting race barriers you fucking geniuses.

Seriously though, ignore the crap out of them, what they're saying is quite racist and plain stupid.

 

The fuck?

 

. It's almost like a high school rivalry. It's pointless, silly, and only exists because people want it to. All the people at my (Christian!) high school are totally fine with it though. I just found out the other day that a black girl has a crush on me, actually. It's one of those ways of thinking that I think will naturally disappear as younger generations become older and we start focusing on actual problems.

 

In some situations, people and their logic are something I don't want to waste my time on.

 

I am a white woman, but I am totally aware that this double standard exists. I was shocked as a teen when two of my friends, black, had a conversation on the matter. The girl was dating a white guy, and the guy expressed opposition. He said she should be dating black men. The girl said, "well you only date white women" and he replied "that's different. Black women need to date black men." And how are these black men expecting black women to date black men when they don't want to date them, but wanna date white women? That's what I see at least. It's fucked up. People should be able to date whomever they want and not get heat for it.

 

I agree with bicomplicated. There's nothing wrong with dating someone "outside your race". You should be able to date anyone you want to date.

 

Oh, what a bunch of crap. It's not about "betraying your race", it's about them seeing black women with white guys and getting jealous that they're not getting any.

Now, if someone doesn't want to date outside their race, fair enough, but talk of "betrayal" is just ridiculous.

 

That is the most bullshit thing I ever heard...

 

I've heard white, Asian, and Hispanic men say the same thing, regarding "their women". The funny thing is, they're "allowed" to date outside their own race.

 

First of all (*hug*)

I'm sorry you've had to endure that kind of crap! :icon_sad: (*hug*)
I don't really have words of wisdom to offer though.. just hugs. (*hug*)

 

That hypocritical mindset reeks of those men treating black women as property to do as they're told.

Sleep with, kiss, love, and marry whomever you wish. Your race is not a limit, and if people don't want you to date outside of your race, then don't listen to them.

I'd say it's more of a betrayal to try to limit a black woman's right to chose what she wants.

 

I'd done the same, no use in talking to them...
Funny thing is that you'd get called a racist right away if you say same things when being (born) white. It pisses me off that a black man is more free to call a white man a racist, and not the other way around. Being racist is independent of your skin color, and those words were racist words, period.

 

I met this guy in college who said that he'd never date a girl outside of his race and he felt that black women should only date within their race. I'm not sure why though...

I wasn't surprised because he wasn't accepting of his female cousin who was gay. And when I asked him to introduce me to her, he basically told me no, and that I'd have to approach her myself. I mean, he was such a cool guy, but I didn't like him very much after getting to know the real him.

Also, to say that black women are at the bottom of the dating list is horrible! I mean, everyone has the right to date whoever they want. I'm black and I'm all for interracial relationships.

I'm so glad that I've never had to deal with black men with that type of mind set

 

I'm guessing old tradition, and being closed minded has something to do with their thinking.

I've had older people say to me it's best to be with a chinese girl.. I asked why, and they said something like its best to be with you're own people and other races aren't reliable. Of course I disagreed.

 

What utter bullvomit! Knowing that people with those mindsets even exist makes my blood boil.

Of all the evil filth that has infiltrated this earth, race prejudiced mentalities are among the most absurd. I'll never understand it.

 

:roflmao:

This is a joke right?