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When was the first time you said "I love you" to your special one?

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  1. duende84

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    When was the first time you said "I love you" to your special one? And really meant it with all your heart?

    I have not yet said it to my BF because we made a sort of agreement not to "splurge" it without meaning. Because sometimes it can be strewn around like cheap candy making it lose its true meaning.
     
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    I said it a few times before, but not with whole my heart..

    To answer the question: quite recently, I did! To a wonderful guy I met. :icon_bigg :slight_smile:
     
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    I fell for my fiance quite early on in the relationship. And I was lucky that she fell for me at the same pace. The first time I said I loved her, I put a paper cut out heart in an envelope and posted it through her door ... LOLLing at this now *cringe* ... It had a note inside with the heart that said "The scariest thing now is not me falling so f*cking fast for you, but finding the right words to tell you that I have. I'm giving you what's inside this envelope, because its yours " *double cringe* - however, on my defence - I'm marrying the girl haha.
     
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    That's so romantic Alezin!!! I would do something like that as well. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    I said "I love you" not too long ago to someone I really love. I've never fallen in love with someone before but, I'm certain that the feelings I have are love. That's why I don't think I'm wasting the words because, I really mean it when I say it. :grin:
     
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    Never said it.
     
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    I have never said it. I have just been seeing my boyfriend for about 2 months now. While I think it could be soon, I am falling for him very fast. This is my first real relationship, but I have never felt for him like I have another.

    I'm don't know when it will happen, or how, but I'm sure it will be a very special moment. I can't wait for it.
     
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    Ok this may be TMI but...

    We were in bed very early on in our relationship and because of my medication side effects I was having a lot of trouble, uh, performing. We gave up and were just cuddling quietly and I whispered to him "I think I love you. Because as much trouble as I'm having, even just lying here with you makes me feel like the luckiest guy in the world." And four months later I still feel like the luckiest guy in the world every time I'm with him or thinking about him.
     
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    Aww such great replies.
     
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    There you go, gay axolotl. Somebody has said it!
     
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    what special one?
     
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    Tough call. I don't think I've really said it. I may have to a few people but there was little to no meaning behind the "I love you's" for them.
     
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    The first time I told my girlfriend I loved her was on our one month anniversary. She was actually the one who said it first. I wanted to tell her before that but I just didn't want to scare her off so I'm glad she said it first.
     
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    Maybe about after two dates and two mojitos :grin:
     
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    I think I said it about a month into the relationship for the first time. But me and my partner say it every single day without fail. And at the minute I have a cold, so she's saying it more to avoid kissing me lol
     
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    My boyfriend said it to me, I think within a week after we had made our relationship official. Pretty soon, I know - but we had taken things pretty slowly before this and it felt right to say it back, so I did.
     
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    My ex boyfriend said it first after about a week, and I said it right back. And we still tell each other it all the time.
     
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    Er I was in restraints and we were just talking about stuff, and yeah It slipped out...

    Kinda amusing I guess
     
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    Well, if an Email counts, I have...

    I told the person I love (who was questioning their gender at the time, turns out she's a girl!) that I love them (first time I admitted this to her) and that a bit of frustration over body parts and pronouns won't change that. Unfortunately, I'm fairly sure she never saw the message. I actually asked her to the senior prom months earlier, but she just explained that she wouldn't have time and it almost felt like she thought I meant it as a friend. We're hoping to get together at Anime Boston next year, so here goes take 2! (=^_^=)