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Can having a bad relationship with your mother make you more likely to be lesbian ?

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  1. stocking

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    So if can not getting along with your mom make you a lesbian ?
    my mom and I were pretty cool when I was a baby though but she started hating me as a teen . I grew up with my dad for most of my life but moved in with her . I've been a abused by both parents my mom and my biological father who would beat me every day and even beat me when he he caught me kissing a girl so is this the reason i'm a lesbian ? and for most women that are gay ?
    My father and I got along well but sometimes he would just randomly beat me because I had trouble learning at school when i was a kid . He stop after couple of years and then started disciplining me differently
     
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    Re: Can having a bad relationship with your mother make you more likely to be lesbia

    No, I don't think the two have anything to do with each other. As far as I know, the only evidence emerging to explain the "cause" of homosexuality is genetics
     
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    Re: Can having a bad relationship with your mother make you more likely to be lesbia

    The fuck is up with your parents, yo?
     
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    Re: Can having a bad relationship with your mother make you more likely to be lesbia

    Yes Kaiser they are I love my dad though even though he beat all the time :icon_sad:
     
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    Re: Can having a bad relationship with your mother make you more likely to be lesbia

    I don't think so. Nothing really "makes" you gay besides genetics, as far as anyone has logically been able to prove. It just happens.
     
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    Re: Can having a bad relationship with your mother make you more likely to be lesbia

    I agree. It's genetics. You are just the way you are. Nothing "makes you gay."
    And to eco Kaiser: wtf?!
    I'm sorry you had to go through all that, honey. :frowning2:
     
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    Re: Can having a bad relationship with your mother make you more likely to be lesbia

    (*hug*) thank you
     
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    Re: Can having a bad relationship with your mother make you more likely to be lesbia

    I don't think that that makes you gay. I'm gay and I don't get along with my mom.

    I'm sorry that you had to go through all of that :/.
     
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    Re: Can having a bad relationship with your mother make you more likely to be lesbia

    Awe I am sorry to hear you had to endure so much when you were younger. You sound like a very strong woman though despite of what you have been through. In answer to your question, I don't necessarily think so.. I have a wonderful relationship with both my parents and still am bisexual.
     
  10. XenaxGabby

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    Nope. I have a great relationship with my mom, aside from her not accepting me that is.
     
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    No. My mother, though not accepting of my sexuality, is still very close to me.

    I'm so sorry you've had to go through all of that.
     
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    Re: Can having a bad relationship with your mother make you more likely to be lesbia

    I don't think that one has anything to do with the other. Homosexuality is apparently is caused by genetics.
     
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    neigh
     
  14. Fallingdown7

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    Nope. I love my Mom to death and she's an avid gay rights supporter and defends me whenever people doubt or talk down about my sexuality. She even cut contact with family members who were super religious and bashed gay people.

    And of course some women with bad mothers are straight as well. I think It's mostly genetic

    Although I'm sorry to hear your Mom is so terrible -hug-
     
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    Dean Hamar's The Gay Gene, hitting bookshelves near you this fall.......
     
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    Re: Can having a bad relationship with your mother make you more likely to be lesbia

    Despite my argument in the other thread, I'm going to go with no. I don't really think there's any - even speculative - thinking to suggest what you're saying. Now fathers and sons on the other hand... I'm not sure. I wouldn't worry about it though.
     
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    Re: Can having a bad relationship with your mother make you more likely to be lesbia

    Thanks. I'll take a look into it. :3
     
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    Re: Can having a bad relationship with your mother make you more likely to be lesbia

    No, doesn't seem likely. Sorry for what you went through though.
     
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    I don't think so either.

    That being said, I feel really sorry for what happened. I hope you're doing much better now! (*hug*)
     
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    Re: Can having a bad relationship with your mother make you more likely to be lesbia

    My mom is truly my best friend, I don't think I've ever been closer to anyone my whole life.

    I don't think they'll necessarily find "the reason" for being gay, as I think it's often caused by various factors, but if anything does turn out to be a universal answer, one's relationship with their parental unit of either gender surely ain't it.