So..Just wondering if I'm doing something wrong about getting hook ups on ******? Realistically, I know these hook ups are "sleezy" or whatever but I'm young and I don't see anything wrong with meeting up with some hot guys lol. I am just a little confused though. Why is it that people act really interested in then when it comes down to it they just ignore or block me? It's just very frustrating personally, especially when this happens in situations where I'm not trying to hook up but build a relationship with someone. They act interested and all and next thing I know they are gone
Nah you're not doing anything wrong. From my experience, I've been the one person who acts intrested but then backs out. When you chat with someone online it's comfty because you can be really open and flirty and stuff, but when It starts to get real I get kind of scared and uncomfortable. I think that's because you can't get to know anyone all that well online, like what if they're not who the say they are? I don't think it's anything wrong, it's normal to seek out people and form connections, sexual and emotional. If you feel like it, continue doing what you'r doing, maybe change tactics, place or sort of guys you talk to? You shouldn't feel shame. You should, how ever, be careful about what sort of guys you come in contact with.