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If You Could Love...

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by DarkestDream, Oct 6, 2014.

  1. DarkestDream

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    No gender barriers...no worries about attraction..none of that...could you? WOULD you? (*hug*)
     
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    uhhh UHHHHHH UUHHHHHHH *SWEATING* UUUUUUUHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

    no one could like me that way so uh i could but the question doesnt matter anyway for me haha check mate [dies alone]
     
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    Yes, I certainly would. :slight_smile:
     
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    I don't entirely understand the question. You mean like, would I choose to be superpan and love anything if I could?

    The logic half of my brain says "duh, obviously" but the sexy half says "nah penis is the best"
     
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    Yes, because I don't worry about gender barriers now, and I don't worry about attraction. I just go with my feelings. And it worked. I am in love with a wonderful guy and he loves me back as well. :icon_bigg
     
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    I'm happy enough the way I am. Which is more ace than pan, but still kinda pan.
     
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    the question is incomplete and confusing
     
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    If i find the right person... I mean, when you take physical attraction out of the equation, it all comes down to whether the person on the other end is interesting/unique enough that you yourself would be interested in pursuing a relationship/falling in love. This automatically excludes the boundaries of gender/appearance.

    That being said... I personally don't like boring people, and i'm sure i'm not the only one. This is where physical attraction comes into play, because it serves as something like a buffer, to compensate for what a person lacks in the "unique/interesting" department, with pure/raw sexual appeal.

    One must obviously "choose" for himself the weight he puts in either of the abovementioned "categories". I do say "choose" but in reality, it is not all that much of a choice when you think about it... It is why we find some people more attractive than others and/or why we can "fall" for someone without even meeting them.