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Why when someone shows signs of heterosexuality I lose interest?

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  1. iGustavoLeon

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    Have I matured?
    or is that now meeting more attractive gay people?

    When anyone act like a straight i say in my mind "That is not possible" and this person loses my focus for him.

    I think that Gay people is really cool.
     
    #1 iGustavoLeon, Oct 12, 2014
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    gay is better!
     
    #2 FireSmoke, Oct 12, 2014
  3. Fallingdown7

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    Well, I'm kind of the same way, but I'd define that more as 'exclusively interested in the opposite sex' which makes me lose interest fast. I don't decide on gender roles though, there are varieties in every sexuality
     
    #3 Fallingdown7, Oct 12, 2014
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    I sort of feel the same way. Its not that they are no longer sexually attractive, but I just don't think of them the same and would never fall in love with them.

    It was different in high school in which I would still have major crushes on people regardless.
     
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  5. iGustavoLeon

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    Yes, it was different in high school
     
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    Do you think it might be because you're looking for someone who could possibly be more than just a friend?
     
    #6 CyanChachki, Oct 12, 2014
  7. iGustavoLeon

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    Yes , many times in the past when I tried to step up saw that there was no way because this person is straight, Now I am happy thinking that you can not be with some person but 'yes' with anothers.
     
    #7 iGustavoLeon, Oct 12, 2014
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    Yeah. Or if their taken. Usually
     
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    I hope this happens to me one day. I still got some crushes on straight men haha.
     
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    Straight crushes have been the bane of my existence for the last 4-5 years. I'm glad to hear that some of you say they subside, because they are a massive pain in the nuts.
     
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    I lose interest because that's all you ever see on tv , doesn't have anything to do with gay being cool or not . I just want to watch a show I can relate to :dry:
     
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    I am not heterophobic but when i meet a new friend i suppose that is straight and homophobic but that does not make that i try to be cool as possible with them.
     
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    Reread this , for me I would like to show this person respect , just as much as I would like a other people to respect my sexuality .
     
    #13 stocking, Oct 12, 2014
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