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If someone is prude about sex and being naked would u still date them?

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  1. Rosepetal

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    My boyfriend didn't have a problem with my I guess prudence but over time I've changed but I'm still prude. So would u still date a person who is prude about sex and seeing people in bikinis and being naked ?
     
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    i would probably be the prude one in the relationship lol
     
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    Absolutely not.

    It just wouldn't work out in the long run, unless I was able to slowly corrupt them... and make them the opposite of prude. :badgrin:
     
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    I'm kind of a prude myself, the thought of being naked in front of someone makes me extremely anxious. So yes, I would. :lol:
     
  5. Ouzo

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    If that's their only flaw then yes.
     
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    I guess if by being with me, it helped them become less prude or at least more comfortable with me, that would be fine. Otherwise, probably not. Someone being uncomfortable around me naked would make me uncomfortable. I can't imagine that working out well.
     
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    Yes, it would be very shallow of me to say that I wouldn't date someone because of that reason.
     
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    As long as they are willing to come out of their comfort zone, then I'm okay. I used to be a super prude, even though I was really kinky in private.
     
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    Maybe..........
     
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    Probably not.

    And not because I think it's weird, or lack respect for their views, but simply because I think physical intimacy is a huge part of a relationship. I have to be with someone whose clothes I want to rip off them constantly. If that's not the kind of chemistry we have, and I can't do that with someone, it wouldn't work for me.

    I would be okay with someone who wanted to wait for a little while. Like if you don't want to have sex a week after we start dating, that's fine. I can wait a little while if it's a big deal to the person. Cause, I mean, it should be a big deal. That makes it exciting.
     
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    Depends. If they don't want to have sex, then yeah, sure I'd date them. If they are so prude they can't even crack sexual jokes...no.
     
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    Yeah most likely sometimes it just takes time to get used to one another, and then I'm sure that we could change that.
     
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    Of course I would. There's more to them than that, ya know...
     
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    Maybe.

    But to be honest, I'd rather be sexually active in some way (not penetrative. At least, not penetrating me).
     
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    I'd probably be the prude one in the relationship. I mean I love innuendo and have no problems with people having sex, but I'd want to wait at least a few months before having it. So no, I wouldn't mind. There's more to a person than that.
     
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    This is me as well.
     
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    No way. I have to have someone to share my Naked Wednesdays with!
     
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    Personally, I could date this 'someone'. I mean, most people want to take a little time, before getting down to business. That's fine. However, if they are unwilling to move on the two issues, we'd have to have a serious talk, and see what is best for both of us. A relationship where the needs of both are not being met, well, that doesn't sound too thrilling.
     
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    My wife is pretty modest, I on the other hand would prance around naked and not give a single care who saw. We have been together for almost 10 years and it is a great source of fun and joking in our relationship.