I am quit sure that I am a bisexual and female is much more sexually attractive to me. But the weird thing is I can watch gay porn instead of lesbian porn. The latter one makes me sort of sick. what's the matter with me?
Nothing is wrong with you. As a Bisexual myself, I have a preference too. Like what you like. If you're more attracted to gay porn then that's just fine. It doesn't make you any less of a bisexual.
Hi! I understand how confusing it is to not like lesbian porn when you like girls. But i want to share a secret: porn isn't real sex. Lesbian porn is marketed towards male viewers (goodness knows why) and usually doesn't translate well for women who like women. Don't worry friend, many lesbians/bisexuals/pansexuals/etc don't enjoy lesbian porn, but enjoy lesbian sex very much. Your identity is valid no matter what!
As a fellow bisexual woman, I used to enjoy watching lesbian porn, but honestly it's not as appealing to me as it was before. I actually like watching gay male porn, so if I were you I wouldn't worry so much. The type of porn you like does not equate sexual orientation/attraction. I actually prefer to be with a woman and doing so is so much better than how I feel whenever I am watching lesbian porn. Perhaps, it's a bit of jealousy, but to me, it is so unrealistic like 99.9% of the time.
I agree with this.. I used to really love lesbian porn and I haven't felt like watching it for a few weeks and then I did last night and I couldn't even finish watching one, I still like it but I haven't felt the need to want to watch it for a while. I also agree the type of porn you watch or don't watch doesn't equate to your sexual orientation and attraction to others and most lesbian porn is made with straight men in mind which is why you might not feel into it as well. A lot of lesbians don't like it as it's unrealistic like pinklov3ly said.
Yes that helps a lot. I do like watching the kiss and boob touching parts, which from my point of view, are sweet.
Lesbian porn isn't even made for lesbians to enjoy , so it makes sense why many lesbians don't like it since it's tailored for straigth men .:dry:
I don't know if disliking lesbian porn means you do not accept lesbian sex. Most real lesbians don't like it since It's not made for us. Straight or guy-on-guy is more popular in our community. I am a lesbian and I prefer to watch gay porn, while lesbian porn is a turn-off. It has nothing to do with not accepting my sexuality, and everything to do with lesbian porn being fake and poorly made. When you are with a real woman it might feel different.
I agree with what everyone has said. I don't enjoy lesbian porn either. It's usually tailored toward straight men and is fake and poorly made. I don't watch much porn, but when I do, I prefere to watch amature porn as opposed to professional porn. It's much more real and sexy. And I am into light BDSM, but I HATE BDSM porn. It also is poorly made. The porn you like to watch doesn't have to do with your sexuality or even your bedroom preferences. It's hard to find porn that is sexy and an actual turn on in my opinion. Once you actually experience sex with a woman, I am sure you will find it sexy. I know I love being with a woman. BUT even if you never have sex with women or NEVER even WANT to have sex with women, if you have attraction towards women, you can still label yourself bi and not worry. There are sooo many degrees of bisexuality. It's not a "one size fits all" thing. No worries!
Its okay, that's actually really common in the lesbian and bisexual community. I guess its cause people find the gay sex thing way more real. I can't watch lesbian porn either.....but I CAN read some lesbian erotica on fanfiction. I guess because I form my own image in my head it makes it seem more real.
