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Do you think a Straight Man would kiss a Gay Man on a Dare?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by willycubed28, Oct 19, 2014.

  1. willycubed28

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    Okay, so here is my question. Do you think if a guy is really straight that he would kiss a gay guy on a dare? I had a guy come up to me at a club, and started kissing me. It was nice. He then walked away. A few minutes later, he came over to me and apologized saying "I am straight. I only kissed you because my two friends dared me too. Sorry man" and then he walked off. So what do you all think?
     
  2. NingyoBroken

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    Yeah, some people would do anything if it was a dare
     
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    Some people are idiots and will do anything for a dare.
     
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    I've seen it done before so yeah .
     
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    When I first read the title I thought 'looks like someone is a little...too hopeful of a fantasy being fulfilled...'

    On a more serious note, I wouldn't put it pass one who is secure enough in themselves. If you ask me though, it's a pretty shitty thing to do, even if just a kiss. We're generally taught that toying with someone like that, who we aren't into, isn't a nice thing, so why should that be any more amusing. At least he apologized, I guess.

    I mean flirting is one thing(that can be more easily written off as meaningless) but something like kissing? That's a bit...far, don't you think? I bet it could be pretty humiliating, too, if you were to catch said person and their friends cracking up over it afterward, when you maybe were questioning things and showed signs of liking it.

    I mean, a scenario could play out where someone on the receiving end of the kiss could have a little fun of their own(like blowing one back to your direction to mess with you), but you get what I mean.
     
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    I have to say yes I can see it , I think that it is a rotten thing to do to you :frowning2: I am sorry it happened to you this way .
     
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    Thanks guys. Its just I do not get it. What is the point of kissing someone who you are not attracted to. I do not go around kissing girls, and even if I was dared to I wouldn't because I like guys.
     
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    Depends on how drunk they are. I've kissed straight girls while drunk, but for some reason that seems a lot less scandalous than a straight guy kissing a gay guy. Maybe he went along with it because he was just the smallest bit curious; doesn't mean he's still not straight.
     
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    Maybe if he was drunk enough. I wouldn't worry about it
     
  10. Fallingdown7

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    It CAN happen, but I also wouldn't expect it to be possible with all straight guys out there
     
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    I think it can happen and I am sorry it happened to you..
     
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    That guy was an a.hole.

    On dare, you can do more than kissing if you know how to play your cards right. :grin:
     
  13. Pie

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    Yup, I kissed a friend on a dare when I was 11. Neither of us knew we were gay at the time! :lol:
     
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    Subconsciously tho..
     
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    Depends on the man.
     
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    I have been kissed before by a straight friend of mine.

    I have no reasons to believe he's anything but happily married to a woman, but one evening, a couple of years ago, he confessed to be curious whether kissing a guy is different from kissing a girl. I mentioned I hadn't ever been kissed by a guy before, so I wouldn't know. Next second saw me mutter "wait, what are you..." and then his lips met mine.

    His scientific asessment: "not much difference on the purely physical feeling of it. Though the emotions are different!"

    He hasn't offered ever since (not that I think my boyfriend would approve of further experimentation with friends :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:), and has seemed to continue being pretty happily straight ever since.

    So: yeah, I'm sure some straight guys are just open-minded and impulsive enough to try that sort of thing.
     
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    Some people are very secure with their sexuality and comfortable with the sexuality of others. So, yes, I do think that it is possible. Granted, that there may be some who aren't really straight who do this.
     
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    Some, yes. I've kissed / been kissed by about 6 of my straight male friends on a dare.