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Moving in together

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by duende84, Oct 21, 2014.

  1. duende84

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    Guys

    The opportunity for me and my bf to move in together is now more real than every before. It is equally terrifying as it is exciting. We have been dating and going very steady for six months now.

    Sometimes we have our "off" moments, but not towards each other. It is usually because of outside influences (work, family). I have learned well this past months to read him well and respect him when he needs to be alone. He has been an amazing support for me up to date and I am very grateful for him.

    I still have to break the news to my parents. But recently I am more calm about it than ever before.

    I am looking forward to setting up a home with him and to support him in totality. But I am also doing my best to be very sober about it all. Because I care I whole lot about him.
     
  2. White Knight

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    So happy for you. Hope you can live together for a long time. (*hug*)
     
  3. duende84

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    Thank you White Knight. I am 100% committed.
     
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    Good luck and best wishes to both of you.
     
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    Sending you good thoughts and best wishes as you begin this journey! :slight_smile:
     
  6. duende84

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    Thank you Yossarian and DarkestDream!
     
  7. duende84

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    So it happened... And I suffered a terrible spell of depression over the weekend. :frowning2:
    Packed my bags and came back "home" to my folks.

    I feel so dysfunctional.
     
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    Sorry to hear that :frowning2: Keep looking up, I'm sure things will get better in time xxx
     
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    I wish you both the best of luck.