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Gaydar broken after coming out?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by QueerTransEnby, Oct 22, 2014.

  1. QueerTransEnby

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    I don't know if this has happened to anyone after they came out, but it seems like my gaydar doesn't work as well. Maybe it is because I am over-analyzing behavior or mannerisms. I am not sure, but I want it back. It seems like it had a good rate before. :lol:

    ---------- Post added 22nd Oct 2014 at 07:28 PM ----------

    I've seen that video before. :slight_smile:

    Yes, I feel like I will look at clothing and tone of voice more now than before. I was at a wedding a few months ago, and there was this guy in a v-neck, was gesturing a lot, and had a very high voice. Ironically, both me and the gay male couple there thought he was gay. It turned out we were both wrong as his girlfriend came back to his table and started talking to him and holding hands etc.

    ---------- Post added 22nd Oct 2014 at 07:29 PM ----------

    Oh ok, the second half of my post was a reply to someone who apparently deleted their post. LOL.
     
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