my eyes are set on this person for a year now (yeah my sad life) he belongs to the popular crowd and well i'm the anonymous smarty guy. i'm pretty sure he is not straight (that was according to my radar) . the problem is, we don't share a single class, so the chances of us getting to know each other is zero. i wanna approach him but i don't know how. i don't wanna creep him out by talking out of the blue. yesterday i was feeling brave and i resorted to staring(augustus waters style) but he still didn't notice me(haha i sound creepy). i feel like givin up but i still wanna try. for those who have experience on this. help? :help:
I just go up and talk to them. I do not get shy when around attractive people, I have even called guys gorgeous the first time we talked.
Or if you want to build up to it, just say hi (his name) in passing a few times and after you feel comfortable pull him to the side and talk, I have a few good friends that way.
Believe it or not, even people in the "popular crowd" crave attention from someone interested in them. I like Topher's approach on this, sounds like a good way to go about it. My only question is, how well does your gaydar work, are you very comfortable with it?
I would just say Hi like Topher said, then slowly start trying to work up into a fluid conversation xD Most people are quite open to meeting new people, and it may seem very awkward but it probably wont be
One of my best friends I met in middle school, he had math the period after I had it, I didn't actually meet him face to face for a month haha. We just kept leaving notes under the desk to each other, I don't remember how it started. Maybe just a hi written on the desk.
I go up to them and talk to them. I try to make them laugh in hopes that they'll like me and I won't creep them out :S.
Turn my hat backwards... ... and throw a Poke'ball, of course! But seriously... A variation of that, to keep it as simple as possible. Sometimes, during my observations, I come to the conclusion, that 'my crush/focus' may not be worth approaching, for a few reasons.
I unleash my irresistible charm, which usually involves stumbling over my words and spilling half my drink on the floor. When I'm feeling extra brave, I'll trip over a chair. 60 percent of the time, it works every time.
