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Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Hexagon, Oct 24, 2014.

  1. Hexagon

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    Would you change it?
     
  2. myheartincheck

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    At the moment no, because I have some baggage I'm working on.

    In the near future I will consider it though! I have two dating options currently but need to make sure if I enter into a relationship it's not a rebound.
     
  3. BiShoegazer

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    Nope. I'm very happy with the way everything is as it is so I don't see reason to change that. Besides, I'm far too self-indulgent to be in any sane form of a relationship.
     
  4. Hyperbol

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    Not now but I will coz I've lots of things to working on and the most important thing is I still in closet
     
  5. cuppycake

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    I honestly don't know. Right now, I'm not sure I want a relationship, because I've already had a couple which ended horribly, and the last one was like, weeks ago, so I'm still kinda ... you know, recovering.

    On the other hand, I'm a person who doesn't give up easily, and even if my heart's not ready, I would probably give it a go. It just really depends on the person. Before I was fine with simple relationships, 'friends with benefits' relationships, etc. Now I'm too wounded for that. I'm still licking my wounds, I'll take a risk only if I find the girl of my life or just someone really, REALLY amazing.

    So, yeah. To sum it up: I'm not really in the condition for relationships, but if I find the right person, I'll date.
     
  6. thekillingmoon

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    Yes in a heartbeat. I don't like being single.
     
  7. Mangaholic

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    I wouldn't right now since I have a few things that I am trying to get done and I would probably end up neglecting the relationship (and I wouldn't want to do that). But I definitely do want to be in a relationship after.
     
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    I dont think id go for an all out relationship change. But i would like to find someone to just build a close, special friendship with.
     
  9. Fallingdown7

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    Nope, I hate being in relationships
     
  10. Pret Allez

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    I would like not to be single, and I'd be kind of sad if I couldn't date someone by this time next year. I do realize I have things to fix like my self-centeredness, and my body (I'm not really sexually desirable), but I feel like I deserve to be loved; and I would very much love someone else.

    At the moment, I'm able to tolerate being single. Only just barely...
     
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    I would for the right person, but I don't really mind being single.
     
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    Would I change it? Yes.

    Am I in a hurry to? No.
    I'm relatively content being single, and to me it seems unfair to the other guy since I'm closeted atm :slight_smile:
     
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    Yeah, I'd like to be dating now. Long-term or short-term, wouldn't matter. I'd just like to find someone I'd feel close to, physically and emotionally.
     
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    Yes, I'd like to meet someone. For a long time I wanted nothing to do with relationships, but as I've realized I actually am starting to desire one, that's what's been prompting me to finally acknowledge my sexuality and come out. So it's been on my mind, yes.
     
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    I'm trying to change that right now.:lol:
    I'm going to places where lgbt people hang out
     
  16. Rainbows~Exist

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    Yes! I'd really love to have a boyfriend...
     
  17. NingyoBroken

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    I don't mind being single. Actually, being in any sort of relationship right now is probably not the best idea. So no.
     
  18. Hexagon

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    The vast majority of the time, I'm pleased to be single. Sometimes I feel lonely, though. Given that I generally don't look forward to the apparent psychological changes associated with romantic love, such as being absolutely insufferable illogical, and selfish, I'll just tolerate the occasional loneliness and remain single.
     
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    God yes, but that's not happening any time soon as
     
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    While I'm lonely no, I would not because it would be sneaking around it the case of it being a girl. I'd rather wait till I'm out and about which I'm planing to be in roughly 1 year and 2 months