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Came out to two friends!

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Gfig, Oct 24, 2014.

  1. Gfig

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    So, i came out to two of my friends as being gay. I had brought up LGBT stuff before so i knew for sure they weren't homophobes. One of them has/had a crush on me so i didn't know how she would take it. When i told the first friend, the one who likes me, she said "oh i didnt know that." And she acted like it wasnt a big deal. The other friend said "thats nice." And also didnt care. And they didn't avoid me afterwards either. They have continued to talk and text me like normal! :slight_smile:
     
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    Wow, that is awesome news. Congratulations, glad it all went okay for you.
     
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    Congrats! :icon_bigg
     
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    COngrats! I recently came out to two friends too! It's freaking awesome!
     
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    You are so awesome ! I am so happy for you
     
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    That's amazing!! You took a huge step.
     
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    Congratulations, must've been difficult; the buildup.
     
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    Congrats! I'm glad it went so well for you :slight_smile:
     
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    That's great! It feels good to come out to people you can trust, doesn't it?
     
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    Thanks everyone! I felt like a huge weight was lifted off my chest when i told them!
     
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    Great for you! I'm glad they both took it so well. Telling friends can be scary, but positive reactions can make it much easier to tell others.
     
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    Congratulations for coming out and having such good friends :grin: (!) (!)
     
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    Thanks!