I want to flirt with my crush in my class, we only see each other in class. Its kind of weird if I just started complimenting her, because I dont do it often. I need tips and advice on how to flirt with her.
The best advice I can give is just be yourself and don't Make it feel force.. I am not really good at it either but just be yourself.
You might have a look at this: http://emptyclosets.com/forum/sexual-romantic-orientation/146045-flirting.html#6 I'd say don't get nervous... just be yourself, be natural, and show your feelings a bit...
I actually got somebody's number last night, when I attended a Halloween party, with this: *jogs up to person, acts out of breath* Person: Uhh, you okay? Me: Yeah, yeah. Just... I'm out of breath; I normally don't exercise, but you were that good-looking. Person: *laughs* Then, I just talked about what was going on. Usually, if you can make somebody laugh -- and not a nervous-kind of laugh -- you have it in the bag. Laughter is the sound of ice having been broken. A general rule of thumb, though, is to keep it simple. Compliment people, but don't overdo it. For example, it's fine to say a kind word, about a piece of an outfit. But don't, within 5 minutes, talk about somebody's bodily shape -- you can, but, that's a more advanced level. And, even if you are flawless with that, it can still be uncomfortable, or even offensive. Be friendly, but playful. Tease, but very lightly. A good example of lightly teasing is, compliment a piece of clothing, say it looks nice -- then follow up with, "But it'd look a lot nicer on me." *hug them gently* "Yeah, that looks a lot nicer." You're being playful, but you're also demonstrating confidence. Of course, you have to sort of know, if the touch barrier is or isn't an issue. Just be honest when you speak kindly, and be friendly. Smile, be cheerful -- basically, be what everybody wants to be, but won't for whatever reason. Be the brightest, not the loudest. If you make people feel happy, generate laughs, and show a loving presence, you'll have people eating out of your hand. If all else fails, just act the way, you'd want somebody to flirt with you.
"Hey, you're absolutely gorgeous!" ^I shit you not. I have literally said that to multiple attractive guys.
This is actually awesome. :lol: It would work on me. I know it might seem pretty strange to randomly compliment someone when you haven't really before, but at the same time, who can really object to being told that you look awesome today? I say go for it. Be confident!
This is how it usually goes for me, anyway. *sees person out of the corner of my eye* *looks up from book* *OHGAWDEYECONTACTWHATNOW* *person walks up* I go, "Oh, hello. How are you?" Person: Fine... I just noticed how good you looked from across the room~ Me: Oh, um, that's... Er... *throws book at their face* *runs away* *forgets book* *comes back and grabs book* *runs away again*
ok I take the girl's things then make her chase me down and pretty much tackle me until she I finally just give it back to her.
I try to make them laugh and then subtly give off compliments to them before they realize hahaha :lol:
Thanks for your replies everyone, I think eye contact is really important, everytime i had eye contact with my crush I'm always the first to look away, no matter how hard i try to be the last. ---------- Post added 26th Oct 2014 at 11:42 AM ---------- I'm gonna try the out of breath one, i don't think the clothing one will work as we are all wearing the same thing in school ---------- Post added 26th Oct 2014 at 11:45 AM ---------- This is quite good, my crush always do this to me and I just take her things too. And we both ended up wrestling each other and had lots of physical contact!!
