I am a gay guy. while i do enjoy sensual touch ( cuddling, hugging, hand holding) , i do not like either oral or anal. It's is difficult for me since most of the gay men want either one of them and in most cases both of them. Is this common for a gay to feel this way?
No it's pretty uncommon. US male-bodied peeps tend to really like that stuff. You're not broken though. There are a few gay and bisexual men who keep strictly to frontage and stuff. (*hug*) ++ Adrienne
How would i find a partner for myself then? I have tried giving and receiving blowjobs but none excited me. Anal is out of question. It's painful when I am bottoming and i dont enjoy being top. Am I Asexual? I do like doing other stuff with guy
Uh, even straight dudes tend to be into that. And wheres the end result in cuddling, holding hands , etc? I m o everything should have a climax.
What we are saying is your desires are rather rare, but others do share them. You'll just have to search.
one question if you don't mind answering. When you give blowjob, is it because you enjoy giving or just for your partner's satisfaction/pleasure?
Depends, I think some people enjoy it but I've also heard plenty of girls say they hate it but do it anyway.
From what i have heard, is a lot of it comes from wanting to satisfy the other partner. There are a few people that do enjoy giving though. As said above, there are people who are like you, in which they could really care less about the sexual aspect of the relationship. You just have to search for them
You could be asexual or you could enjoy other forms of sex like handjobs, frottage, and rimming. I'm sure there are some non-sexual guys out there.
There are plenty of gay men whose favorite activity is cuddling and caressing but not actual sexual acts. And... there are a lot of gay men who think they don't like sex because their partners have been inconsiderate, rough, or just lousy at sex. So when they find someone they really connect with, the find sex to be natural, enjoyable, and pleasurable. Do you enjoy masturbation (either by yourself or with a partner?
Hi, Thanks for the reply. I do enjoy masturbating, by self as well as with a partner but I enjoy masturbating to porn more than the actual sex. I also think that maybe I am not having sex with the person i love, i am lacking emotional connect, that is resulting in unsatisfied sex but sometimes i am certain that i would never prefer anal and oral. though receiving blowjob should not be ruled out.
Happy Guy, Hello I just wanted to give you my opinion .Yes I would have to say that yes you are among a select few that don't like these things and that is perfectly OK !! You are not alone as far as the giving a blowjob to some its a way of saying he I love you and want to please you ,they may or may not like doing it but the do it anyway . I know people that love giving them and I know some that think it is down right nasty . I truly be leave that if you are patient and take you time you will find that perfect person and then you two can learn and grow together maybe ever someday you might even like to do new things things . It will be all up to you !! I hope that you keep looking here for others that share you common interests !! thanks for being here and have a great day
There aren't many of us out there(who couldn't care less about those two things), so I wonder who else is out there, too, on occasion. Neither of those things interests me, but nothing sexual does so go figure. It'd be refreshing to run into someone like you offline; don't think I have yet.
