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  1. batfleckssk

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    There is this cute guy that i like. Not sure if he is gay. Whenever i pass him in the hall he looks startled when he sees me. He is not masculine at all. I don't read too much into stereotypes but he has a slight lispy tint to his voice. Once he said "How are YOU doin!" while smiling. Whenever he is around and i look up at him he jerks his head away really fast like he was looking at me. I passed him once and said hi. I forgot something and had to come back and he said "Welcome back!!" I offered to give him a poster (we had some extras) and he said "Why would i take a poster?" while smiling. Someone else said i was just trying to get rid of the posters. I said to him "take 3 posters!" and he grinned ear to ear. Also, i was talking to him (I think i may have been blushing) and he was smiling the whole time i was talking to him, and was looking me in the eye. Maybe he was laughing at me or something? I don't know. What do you think?
     
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    I think there's a possibility.... He does sound quite flirtatious around you.
     
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    It looks like he barely goes on his facebook, so what would be the best way to connect with him? (outside of the internet)
     
    #3 batfleckssk, Nov 1, 2014
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    If he has a phone, you could ask for his phone#/instagram/kik/etc.
     
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    what do you think of the signs i posted? I hope i am not mistaken. Would he be smiling at me or laughing at me? (I am not that hot)
     
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    Maybe he isn't gay but just effeminate.
     
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    Maybe he's genuinely interested in you as a person. It's rare to find someone who truly appreciates all of their body and thinks that they're truly attractive, but just because you don't think you're attractive doesn't mean he doesn't.

    It's just as possible that he does like you as it is that he doesn't.
     
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    I often see him looking at me from a distance or walking a longer way just to look at me.
     
    #8 batfleckssk, Nov 1, 2014
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    Maybe he likes your personality and as a person.
    Probably wants to get to know you more.
    I don't know...
     
    #9 ForeverYoung000, Nov 1, 2014
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    You can always casually bring up an LGBT-themed topic and see how he responds to it.
     
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    It looks like he is really into watching sports and likes to play basketball for recreation. maybe he is not gay
     
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    Sports don't define a person's sexuality.

    He might not be gay. But I believe that gay people have a reasonably good Gaydar, and can pick up subtle clues from other people. Still, if you don't try, you might never find out.
     
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    Go for it. If you're already out round people letting him know shouldn't be a problem. You don't sound too close so I can't see that you've got anything to lose
     
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    i think i am going to go for it. he didnt respond to my fb message though.
     
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    He could be just a very happy/friendly guy, or maybe he likes you. Ask him to hangout! That's what I would do :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    He doesn't like u he loves u :slight_smile:
     
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    ask him to go somewhere. Anywhere. like a cup of tea. I have missed more than my share by not asking someone to meet somewhere. Just go for a casual walk to the park or whatever.
     
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    He doesn't use facebook to communicate really. he didn't respond to me when i said "hey" but it says "seen". How should i talk to him in person? Like, what should i say?
     
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    Tell him you noticed him looking at you like he might want to be friends, so you want to know if he would like go some place where you can eat lunch and talk.
     
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    Seriously dude, Hes into basketball and watching sports so he cant be gay or into you? That only means he has lame taste in sports . Just ask him to hang out .
     
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