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How do you handle feeling burnt out?

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  1. HM03

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    I guess it is similar to the threads on motivation, but how do you prevent or minimize that burnt out feeling :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:?
     
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    For me--and I will say for me it's generally a matter of being burnt out at work--I just try to remind myself how lucky I am to be able to do the thing I'm tired of doing. Sure I get tired of my job but I could be unemployed or have a worse job or one that pays less. If it's school a lot of people don't have the resources or live in areas where an education is even an option. I'm not always a fan of the whole "well it could always be worse" train of thought but when I'm feeling burnt out on something that I really am fortunate to get to do at all focusing on that helps me.
     
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    I guess I try to escape from it and distract myself when I really should tackle it straight on.
     
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    Think of the rewards at the end. That's how I reach the end of a school day. I'm a lonely kid in school, but when I get home I can skype with people and a very that I very much am in love with. c:

    Funny though, the only thing I don't feel entirely burnt out about is the gym despite my horrible physique... It makes you feel really good when you do run or lift weights, even if you're weak.
     
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    Two really obvious but helpful ways are these:

    Look at the goal, not at the immediate pain.

    Tell yourself that you'll get it out of the way. Just don't rush it, especially if it's something that requires skill and patience.
     
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    I'd say that taking the time to do something you absolutely love might reduce the stress in your life and make it easier to go through the things that's making you burnt out. Physical activity can also be a great stress reducer :slight_smile:
     
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    When I start feeling burnt out I try to use as much of my free time as I can to rest. Forget about chores and errands for awhile. Focus on relaxing a bit. Closing myself up in a dark room somewhere and listening to soothing music really helps me re-center myself and I feel much better afterwards.
     
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    I just listen to music :slight_smile:
     
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    I get burnt out really easily, and I do pretty much exactly what CrazyAwkward described, minus the music. I may just relax and try to sort of "sensory deprive" myself for awhile, or watch favorite TV or cartoons instead.
     
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    It depends.

    If I get burnt out doing something, that has a deadline, then I do as Aussie792 mentioned, I look at the goal/reward/result over the pain/annoyance/exhaustion. I also tell myself, once completed, I can rest.

    Now, if it is being burnt out in general, I usually just take a break. Pretty simple, right? Just take it easy, do things you like to do. After a while of being deprived, you'll start to appreciate what you were doing, possibly even miss it. This is about the time, I go back to what I was doing.
     
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    The more time goes on, and the older I get, the more I just sink into a depression, and feel hopeless, lethargic and ponder modes of a painless death. It's been bad, lately, and the holidays have made things a lot worse, the way they no longer have any meaning. I wish I had better strategies. I see a therapist, but mainly, I work a lot, make little, and have a long commute and am still always broke, and have teeth and eyes I can't afford to fix, chronic pain issues, and the longer this goes on, the harder it is for me to see a future. It's like the best years are over, and I don't have any hope :frowning2:

    So I try and make people laugh, and escape how I can in my own small ways, but it doesn't seem to be working as well...I don't feel very 'connected'...have not seen my family in at least 4 years, and my close friends have moved away. It's just very hard. I don't see there being enough time left for me to ever find a meaningful job, at this point...my skills are just not ones people care about, today. I suck at computers, math and tech, and science is so-so, but not really my thing, either...I mean, not something that I would wanna really 'do'. I don't seem made to be happy, in this world.
     
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    Breathe in. Breathe out.
    Count 1-10
    Or listen to the music.
     
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    I try to remind myself that I'm getting paid for what I'm doing, meaning that I'll be able to do more things with the money that I'm earning, in the future. I try to get a nice cup of coffee, put on some PJs, and sit on the couch and either use my laptop or watch TV.
     
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    sleep a lot, vent about it at therapy or to a really good friend
     
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    Im going through such a stage and its klling me. And i have no escape at the moment.
     
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    Listening to music and taking breaks from things sometimes helps me out greatly.
     
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    In the line of work I am in, the real possibility of burn out is a constant reminder for me of needing to make the most out of my evenings and weekends where I can just relax and not think about work related stuff (similarly for other things that could cause burn out as well). Going for walks, spending time with friends and my sister as well as just reading help me to feel refreshed and energized. Listening to classical music helps too.