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What Do You Do When You're Trying To Look At Someone?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by EDMJunkie, Nov 2, 2014.

  1. EDMJunkie

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    If you're trying to sneak a peek at someone without them or somebody else noticing, what do you do?

    Personally, I tend to mess with the button on my right shirt sleeve while doing it. Not sure why.
     
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    Honestly I just blatantly look at them, I don't really care who sees unless that person starts looking at me, then I avert my eyes and pretend to do something else. Maybe smile first before looking away, but prolonged eye contact makes me really nervous. Then again I wasn't so good at being discreet before I came out, in high school my boyfriend at the time caught me checking this girl out. Oops
     
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    That happened to a friend of mine. Her boyfriend thought it was hilarious.

    ---------- Post added 2nd Nov 2014 at 11:12 PM ----------

    Yes! <3
     
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    In public having reflective sunglasses works wonders. Okay I'll stop being pervy now :rolle:
     
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    I tend to stare, but when i sense that they are going to look at my direction, i hurriedly pretend to look over her, or look at something else.
     
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    Look for reflective surfaces. No one ever notices when you stare at their reflection.
     
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    I try to not get found, with is very hard when you are admiring her big boobs... Asspeople have an advantage defintevely
     
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    I Usually look at something they're close to and then sneak a peak when they're not looking
     
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    Avoided the eyes.
     
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    My hair can be a rather good shield.
     
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    I just tend to look around a lot and frequently steal glances at them.
     
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    I am guilty of staring when that person isn't looking... if they catch me, I pretend I look at something near them or behind them. And glancing is pretty safe for me most of the time.
     
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    Sneak a glance for a few seconds, turn away, repeat.

    I'm not very subtle :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Keep glancing back and forth at them, try to stop if they notice me, keep glancing anyway :'D
     
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    I sometimes might try to act as if i am on my phone but am actually looking at them.
     
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    The casual shifty eyes
     
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    I look at them, then turn to my friend and say something like 'I like their hair', so it doesn't look like I'm checking them out
     
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    I glance at them while in a conversation with one of my tired friends. Everyone else thinks I'm engrossed in the conversation, and my friend is to tired to either notice or care.
     
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    i look around to see if others are looking , I make sure she's not looking back then I stare at her like a quick glance sometimes if I want a better look at a girl , which my store job comes in handy , I walk up to them and say "Hi how are you ? would you like any help at all?" That's when I get a great look at her , she just thinks I'm being polite and doing my job . I don't look like a perve . works great for me .:slight_smile: