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How Well Do You Take Compliments?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Kaiser, Nov 3, 2014.

  1. Kaiser

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    Pretty straight forward, as usual.

    Some folks have a harder time accepting compliments, be it due to low self-esteem, having a hard time believing anyone could think well of them, mistrusting the individual delivering the compliment, or they're just shy that, anything said to them, makes them uncomfortable and likely to put up a wall. And then you have those who, for their own reasons, just don't allow any sunshine inside.

    Basically, how well do you take compliments? Are you open to them, in general, or does it depend on who is providing the compliments? Do you compliment yourself any, or are you capable of giving others compliments?
     
  2. NingyoBroken

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    Very well, I love being complimented.
     
  3. antibinary

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    As I very rarely get complimented, I feel that when it does happen, they're either taking the mickey, or just saying it. Simply put. I can't.
     
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    I get embarrassed and do a weird smile when someone compliments me, I go red :icon_redf :lol:
     
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    Very well, actually. If it's a cute guy or something, then I smile awkwardness, blush a little, and internally giggle like a schoolgirl :grin:
     
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    Pretty well. As someone with already high self-esteem, I feed off compliments :slight_smile: Sure, they do make me blush sometimes, but I always thank the person and they always make me feel very good.
     
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    Depends on the person giving them. I have a hard time trusting anyone, and that's one of the main reasons I don't always accept compliments. BUT when I do, this is how my brain works:

    Someone: You are (nice stuff) !
    Me: You think so?
    Someone: Yes, yes! You're also (more nice stuff) !
    Me: Oh, stop it, you! <3
    Someone: It's true!
    Me: Aww.
    Someone: :slight_smile:
    Me: ...
    Someone: ...
    Me: ...
    Someone: ...
    Me: ... You may continue with the compliments.

    Hehe, basically I appreciate and agree with honest compliments from people I trust and I don't have a low self-esteem when it comes to complimenting myself x3
    As for others, I give only honest opinions and compliments! ^0^
     
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    I find myself getting a little bashful and a little more shy then usual, my face usually gets red and I lower my head and just be all shy. I should be used to it cause my family compliments me all the time in different things and to an extent with family I am okay, but work colleagues and even customers, I still get nervous and shy with when they complimenting me.. I don't know what to say in return usually.
     
  9. JackAttack

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    Not very well, I dont like compliments. I get all shy and will sometimes argue against the compliment.
     
  10. kageshiro

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    was this thread inspired by me >_>

    I just feel really good about them internally and have difficulty expressing that is all. My preferred way of repaying compliments is with more compliments.
     
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    I don't know it makes me uncomfortable sometimes , I'm now getting use to it , but I remember one time I felt bad for getting all the compliments and I started complimenting them too .
    Even though I like it when women compliment me :icon_redf
    a part of me feels uncomfortable because of the way I grew up , I'm so use to hearing negative things about myself from my mom and family that someone saying something good about me makes me feel as if I'm a rat being petted by a snake .
     
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    I have really low self - esteem, so I usually ignore the compliment and just talk about other stuff... Wow this sounds worse than I thought. :confused:
     
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    Meh, I always wonder what they want . When I was in jr high I used to get them a lot and it went to my head and I was a little shit . I got over myself . Way I see it is if I got hit with a hockey puck in the mouth , even with my guard in, I'd be f'ed up with no teeth ; Or if I had a bad wipe out Skating ( a buddy lost his top and bottom fronts ); If I stopped training and got big, or whatver , the compliments would stop. So I then wonder , hm, how deep are compliments then? I mean if you wanna fuck just say that. I'm inherently distrustful .
     
  14. Ouzo

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    I reject it and think they're taking the piss
     
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    I acknowledge them, with a degree of modesty. Mostly I don't really value what I'm complimented on.
     
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    Generally I take them well, if they seem genuine ie not just someone trying to get something out of me. Sometimes can be a bit awkward though as I try to hold myself back from getting cocky about it.
     
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    It ignites a little glow inside of me, which at times when I'm in complete darkness, is satisfying to have a little light inside of me.
     
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    Not well... I assume they're saying it out of pity or lying :S
     
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    i try to gracious but quite frankly i'm usually shocked.
     
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    Compliments? What are those? :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: I really don't take them that well at all. I just sort of blush and stand/sit there awkwardly until the other person leaves:lol: