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silversurfer · 2nd Oct 2008, 12:56 PM

Hi there, I was just wondering were you go to meet guys because there isn't that many that I can see here, I know of a couple but don't know them that and I don't know if they're gay.

Jeimuzu · 2nd Oct 2008, 02:19 PM

Well, in the specificality, I met my boy online, on a gay profile site called Ladslads. He thought I was cute (for some reason ;] ) and sent me a message over there asking me about what music I liked, breaking the ice. I was in Manhattan at the time, though. We chatted a bit online, and we said we'd date when I got home. Since then it's been brilliant. However, I've met guys online who've been awful, so it's not perfect.

Still, though, just make friends. The more out you are, the easier it is to find a guy, because you'll find that people will mention their gay friends. It's why everyone needs a fag hag, haha! Most of them see setting up their gay friend with a boyfriend to be a bit of a project, a hobby, because they think it'd be cute. =]

shakerdancee · 2nd Oct 2008, 10:34 PM

Uhm. It's not easy. It usually just happens though for me. When you're in band, you sort of boil with the same people for hours a day. Shit happens.

2nd Oct 2008, 12:56 PM	#1
silversurfer Well Known Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Some people Location: Brampton, Ontario, Canada Posts: 100 Join Date: Dec 2007	Meeting guys Hi there, I was just wondering were you go to meet guys because there isn't that many that I can see here, I know of a couple but don't know them that and I don't know if they're gay.

2nd Oct 2008, 02:19 PM	#2
Jeimuzu Wreck Cognition Full Member Gender: Heterogametic Orientation: Rawr. Out Status: 99% out. Location: Middlesbrough Age: 23 Posts: 1,744 Join Date: Aug 2007	Re: Meeting guys Well, in the specificality, I met my boy online, on a gay profile site called Ladslads. He thought I was cute (for some reason ;] ) and sent me a message over there asking me about what music I liked, breaking the ice. I was in Manhattan at the time, though. We chatted a bit online, and we said we'd date when I got home. Since then it's been brilliant. However, I've met guys online who've been awful, so it's not perfect. Still, though, just make friends. The more out you are, the easier it is to find a guy, because you'll find that people will mention their gay friends. It's why everyone needs a fag hag, haha! Most of them see setting up their gay friend with a boyfriend to be a bit of a project, a hobby, because they think it'd be cute. =] __________________

2nd Oct 2008, 10:34 PM	#3
shakerdancee Oom-pah! Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Not sure Out Status: Anyone who asks Location: California Age: 19 Posts: 304 Join Date: Mar 2008	Re: Meeting guys Uhm. It's not easy. It usually just happens though for me. When you're in band, you sort of boil with the same people for hours a day. Shit happens.

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