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do you see yourself having kids someday?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by NatWheeled, Nov 11, 2014.

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do you see yourself having kids someday?y

  1. yes, would love to start a family!

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  2. no

    43 vote(s)
    32.3%
  3. someday, but right now i got too much to do

    22 vote(s)
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  4. maybe, if it's something my partner wants

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  1. NatWheeled

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    So yeah this is kinda a spinoff of a topic I posted a bit ago...

    Do you want kids?

    Would you adopt or get a seman donor?
     
  2. BlueAndWhite

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    Yes for sure, I wanna adopt 2 kids when I grow up
     
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    I don't know if I want kids. All I know is that I will not be the biological father. There's way too much shit in my genes that would break my heart if I saw passed onto my child.
     
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    No. God no. That would be horrible.
     
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    Don't really mind kids, it would depend on what a partner would want
     
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    Yes I do, I want twin girls. ^^ If i ended up in a same-sex relationship, I would probably look into adoption, as I think it is truly beautiful when a loving couple can take in a child which the parents can't provide everything the child needs. (I don't mean that in a bad way.)
     
  7. Rawrzilla

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    Is it weird that I already have names for all of them?
     
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    I really want kids, though I am not sure if its a good idea..
     
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    I can't have kids myself, but I'd love to adopt once I'm married/have a long term partner and college is out of the way.
     
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    I think I'll eventually have children. There's something that tells me I'm inclined to be a father.

    The question for me is more along the lines of "would I make a good father and would I deserve children?"
     
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    I do, but... only if i find the right person! *looks around*

    Erhm, that is to say, not that i'm currently looking, for... reasons.


    *off-topic* - I'm so gonna teach them how to hack stuff! Also, skateboards...and, and... photography! And! some outdoorsy stuff, and swimming, and race car driving!!! And... stuff!

    *on topic* - I can't actually imagine how it would be like, since... too much other stuff is clouding my brain right now.
     
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    Someday. I want to experience being pregnant and all that as well.
     
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    Maybe... If my partner wanted to.

    I wouldn't have biological kids either, I'd only adopt. There's too many kids out there who need a home and I'm not concerned with passing on my own genes.
     
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    Seeing as how I was adopted I would love to adopt in the future.
     
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    No, not in the slightest. The planet has enough people in it.
     
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    I would have to think it through and discuss it with my partner and decide if together we want a baby.. It's not enough to say you would have a baby for the sake of your partner who wants to have one, cause then it could cause resentment and a lot of issues if you are only giving in cause your partner wants a baby.. You both have to want to and be be ready for it, so whilst there was an option close to how I feel is in that poll, I wouldn't solely say yes or maybe if 'my partner' wanted a baby.. It would need to be right for both of us.
     
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    Yes... not sure it's actually gonna happen though...
     
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    maybe. I'd want to adopt though
     
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    Seriously, I want to be a father. One of these years when I'm financially stable and decide to settle I'd love to adopt a boy and a girl. And I'm already planning to teach them how to play tennis from the ripe young age of 4. I'd say I've thought about children more than once.
     
  20. Acm

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    Probably not. Maybe if my partner really wanted them but I don't even think I would be a good father, and I don't really think I want them. I guess that could change though