why do some lesbians chase after straight women but hate bisexual women ?

I don't know much about lesbian multisexual hatred except that it's quite malicious, and it's often politically malicious.

 

Sometimes you just hate what you don't understand and you desire what you can't have

 

When I hear some lesbians talk about why they don't want to date bisexuals, one of the things I hear from them is that they don't want women who have been with men. So I find that kind of odd. Straight women will have been with men or want to be with men. So they seem to make confusing objects of lesbian affections.

 

To be honest, I hate when queer people date or have sex with people of the opposite sex

I feel a little "betrayed", even if they identify themselves as bi, maybe I should work a lot more in understanding how complex people's sexuality really is

But I think it's unfair that the community can have that kind of "connection" with the straight community, but it's never the other way round... I don't know if I made myself clear in this one

 

I meant queer people in general

 

I don't know about this. And do they really "hate" bi women? Hate is a strong word. But probably the same as my friend who is gay and chased after straight men (before he got a bf) but said he could never date a bi guy cause he couldn't trust a bisexual. It's frustrating. People are intimidated by what they don't understand is all I can figure out.

 

I would definitely not date someone who had such a hostile attitude as that.

 

Sorry, it's just my opinion, obviously I'm aware that it's very judgmental. This is why I said I was working on that

 

I am lesbain,I like straight women only but I don't hate other lesbains or bi or other gender. But yes I don't feel sexually attracted to others except straight women. And yes I have always been in relationship with straight girls,my current girl is straight but..the only problem is,relationship with straight girls ends,it goes no where but at the end. All of my ex are married with kids now and happy.

 

How hurtful and judgmental am I allowed to be if I claim I'm working on it? How long am I allowed to be working on it?

 

This sums it up well, though it's not applicable to ALL lesbians

 

I think it all steams from fear and the unknown.. A lot of people who are straight or gay don't understand bi or pan people who can have an attraction to more then one gender.. Because they can't understand and can't relate, they don't like it, I don't think it's necessarily that they hate the person in general.. Hate is a really strong word, one i don't like seeing much of at all. I also don't know why lesbians would chase after a straight woman unless she didn't know she was straight, so I can't answer that one.

 

Wanting something they can't have maybe. And about bi girls, maybe lesbians feel insecure, or some of them dislike the fact that they sleep with men... idk.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xUozcqlhX3w

 

I think people don't get what it's like to be bisexual if they personally don't identify as bisexual; they think that bisexual people are fickle and incapable of being faithful, when really that depends on the person themself.

 

Hmm could it be for them...

Straight women/men = No strings attached fantasy sex. Everything's fair and even. They use you, you use them.
Bisexual women/men = Playing with fire. You know you can have them but you don't trust yourself to keep them by your side in the least. They would even tell you they love you but next day when they see an opposite sex they will fly away.

So I say it looks like a trust issue. Gay/lesbian people do what heterosexuals do to gay and lesbians for centuries to bisexuals: Generalizing and discriminating them.