so how many "straight" white guys out there fantasize about black men

I've actually seen a bit of this on the internet, but I'm not 100% sure if those guys are 100% straight.

 

Some men want black men because of the whole big penis thing

 

I don't think all black guys are endowed....just like not all asian men are tiny. It's just a stereotype.

 

This true many straight women say the myth is not true.

 

And if a straight white guy is fatasing about black men he,s probably not straight

 

I find it quite a rude stereotype. People are so much more than their penis. Dating someone based on that seems so odd to me.

I completely missed the straight part! You are right, I'm not sure whether straight people fantasise about black guys, I think they don't do that.

 

I see, but does the person have to be black for that? That's what I meant to say.

And I agree with Stocking. I doubt there will be straight white guys who fantasise about black men in that way.

 

I'm not offended by this at all. I'm white and I live in the U.S.

 

I'm just going to leave out the straight part for obvious reasons, but this is the kinda stuff that pisses me off.

I can personally attest to running across those guys. As if there isn't enough nonsense to go around, you have stuff like this. They put up a 'nice' front, just in hopes of getting to see if you help further confirm the stereotype/fulfill their fantasy, then their true colors are shown when you show no interest in letting this happen. They couldn't give two shits about you otherwise.

 

That's how I understood it. There is definitely a fetish from white guys to black guys and vice-versa, and we're talking sex, not relationships. As for the endowment situation, there is some validity to that. There is a map which shows endowment and, in Europe, France and somewhere around Hungary/Slovakia are labeled with higher average lengths. Someone post that map, please.

I don't think there is a need to mention rape or how other races are ignored. This isn't about that. Some white guys prefer black guys, some are indifferent (equal opportunity), and some don't care for them. I've talked to guys with all three viewpoints.

And here's another thing, a white guy might just find that a black guy is putting the moves on him.

Also, if the straight white guy is fantasizing about black guys, he is not straight. I totally agree with that.

 

Well...... I doubt they're 100% straight :lol:.

That said, I think many white guys might fetishize black guys for their endowment and their "thuggish" nature, all based on stereotypes. I think some white men might want to "dabble" in "exotic" guys and maybe even feel dominated.

There is a reason why general gay porn sites list "thug" as one of their categories.

 

This too. If you have an interlude with one, and you are white and middle class or higher, you've sort of crossed into another world, for lack of a better way to say it. Again, this is based on a stereotype and some can be "thuggier" while some carry themselves just like a white guy, but with darker skin. The ones who are "thuggier" give a different vibe, carry themselves differently, and that gives off a different energy.

I was once listening to Dr. Drew and he was taking a call from a person who enjoyed dangerous liaisons. Dr. Drew mentioned several possibilities. One of them was that some people "deliberately want to be bad." So it probably meets an unfulfilled need. This could also be the reason some guys prefer sexual partners from the other side of the tracks, if they can tell that they really are from the other side of the tracks.

 

I can assure you, there are black men who are well endowed, and there are black men who are not so well endowed. I'm not the latter, but I think it's safe to say that not all all of us are the former. Also, if a man is straight, I highly doubt he'd be fantasizing about men at all, let alone ones that have dark skin.

 

Doesn't sound very straight to me.

 

What an odd thread.

I'd actually think there would be a few though. I think if you take a society or country where there is quite a lot of racial tension, then some straight white masochistic men might get off on some weird power-dynamic reversal business. I'm guessing for some of these men having another man in the "dominant" role might provide a bit of kink (either due to the "exotic" nature of it or the added "humiliation" factor).

Hardly a healthy state of affairs if you ask me, but I guess what consenting adults do behind closed doors is none of my beeswax!