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Earrings and gay/bi guys?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by QueerTransEnby, Nov 13, 2014.

  1. QueerTransEnby

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    So, I had always heard that when gay/bi guys wear an earring on their left ear that they are bottoms when I was growing up. Is this still true or was that a past fad? Do two earrings make you versatile then? Do you yourself wear an earring?
     
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    Wow, you're old :lol:. Just kidding :slight_smile:.

    I also heard that before that time gay men would put hankies of different colors in their back pockets to signal what they were or preferred.

    However, I don't think those rules apply anymore.

    And, no, I don't wear an earring. I don't like piercings on me(n),
     
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    I wear seven. Earring placement doesn't tend to mean anything anymore, as far as I know.
     
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    I don't think it means as much anymore, however, the straight guys I know who have one earring--it's always their left ear. So there does seem to be some lingering thought that the right ear means gay (the only openly gay teacher I had had an earring in his right ear).

    But it seems most guys I know who have earrings (gay or straight) have both ears pierced.
     
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    I have my ear pierced, but dont currently wear anything. I am going to get it pierced again like slightly above the last one, so i can put matching studs in.
     
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    I've heard earring on one side is a sign someone gay. I don't beleive that very much though
     
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    People here said that if a guy wore an earring in the left ear, he was gay. In the right ear, he was straight/bisexual and in both ears.. I guess gay too (because it's in the left ear too). It's ridiculous. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    I don't wear earrings myself. I know straight people who wear them in both, it doesn't indicate their sexuality (unless they are all lying to me). :lol:
     
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    Yep, those were the "rules" as I remember them from growing up. Pretty much I don't remember many guys having earrings back in the 70's or early-80's

    Now, not so much, I think to many straight guys didn't know the rule... :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    Or maybe it was just a secret plot by the gay mafia... LOL
     
  9. I'm a genderfluid lesbian with one earring in my right ear. My mom tells me the only people who wear one earring are old gay men. I feel all the struggles.
     
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    I would like to get my ear(s) peirced, just for the hell of it, but that costs money.
    Also, nah, I don't think it means anything, but it'd be cool if it did. Make things a little easier for dumb ol' janitor.
     
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    That must be me then...:dry:
     
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    It's an old fad from the 90s. Although I only ever heard that the right ear was gay and the left straight.

    I have lobes pierced and want to get a nose ring. Love them on other people of all genders, too.
     
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  13. LOL (*hug*)
     
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    Most of the young guys at the gym I use wear small earrings in both ears. It does not mean they are gay. Unfortunately.