So today i had a long converstion with a friend of mine from school Long story but lets talk about what he told me and i didnt stand up for He was talking about a friend of his who he stopped talking to and had a fight with because he the friend told my friend that he had sex with a guy and got fucked my friend insulted him and they arent friends anymore I felt bad that i didnt say anything about it he didnt say anything about that he left him because he is gay or anything but in my country having sex before marrige is a huge thing Maybe he is coming from this point Or its just because he hates gay peoole anyway He doesnt mind my childish flamboyant side at all i like that in him also we both give hints about being gay if he asked me one day i will tell but its just today i didnt stand up for being gay i feel bad and weak and i cant stop thinking about
So why is it your friend deciding what his other friend does? Tell him to mind his own business and let people make their own choices :dry:
Idk i dont get him and i just wish i said the truth and told him that he should mind his own busines cause i like getting fucked by guys too you know got a problem with that honey? But no i stand up when a jerk can hit me i talk back with jerks at school and i pay for it but still i stand up for myself But why im afraid of a friend i never have been like that before i always come clean i feel so weak -.-
It's not weak to try to protect yourself by staying quiet, that's human instinct. Standing up for yourself is usually the best thing to do, but don't beat yourself up for not speaking up this one time. You will have other chances. I'm trying really hard not to judge your friend because I don't know him. But is he always like this?
Idk one day he is all bored of life sick of people Next day he is the only guy to be my friend in the whole school He is complicted and we dont spend much time together he have other friends and too busy for me sometimes
Well, to me what your friend did is illogical. Sex before marriage is also condemned in here, it is an Islamic thing you know. However it is more like "men can fuck but if a girl did it, kill her". So I guess real point in whole thing is your other friends bottoming? That is a huge deal among males in here. You can fuck an animal, a woman or a guy... they are all cool unless you get fucked. My take from what you said, I can guess your friend thinks your feminine side is just a quirk not related to being gay. Hmm maybe there are things he didn't tell you like your other friend wanted to have sex with your friend? Sorry I give more questions than answers. Dancing in the dark is tough business.
Well my femme side is not what makes me gay but yeah you said it being a bottom getting fucked its what drives them mad ^-^ And yeah i mean i dont belive he would leave a friend because he told him Hey dude i had sex with a guy My friend is not that judgemental
