Someone recently told me I wasn't their type. Has this every happened to you and/ or how do you feel about this?
Hasn't happened to me, but if/when it does, I'll just have to take it in stride. Attraction is a two way thing, and if it's not happening mutually, you have to build a bridge, move on, and find the next person.
I've had a guy tell me that. Was my best mate actually. He went on to tell me my flaws... Oh... we have issues... You see every word dripping with bitter hatred that can only bloom with love. haha
Happened to me while I was in high school...Actually...it happened around the time when I had first joined EC :| Yeah it sucks -.-
There is apparently a member of EC who finds me to be flat out ugly. And fat. I find him to be as deep as a puddle.
Been told by millions of people that I'm not their type, their loss, I already found my partner so no need to hook up with people who will find me unattractive and ugly, fat, you name it.
It hasn't happened to me, but I guess the only thing to do in that situation is to just move on, and start trying to have fun again to kick it out of your mind hehe.
It happens. Some people have prefrences in who theyre attracted to. I just suck it up and try to move on, find someone whose type I am.
yeah its not that big of a deal. some people just arent attracted to other people as much. atleast they arent lying and leading you on.
Sigh I was jus told this by my bes friend who ive been fooling around with. Its like we share all the common interests and love eachother (brotherly way) and yet he says im not his type...I dont understand cus if i found someone that shared all coomon interests and we got along isnt that a shoe in for (being the right type?) ever since then I find him extremely shallow. I still love him but shallow. yea it sucks
I haven't ever had anyone say that to me, but I've told someone else that, the guy actually wasn't really happy about it and I got a pretty nasty email after I did. I more or less told him because he wanted to go in a different direction than me, so I thought I would tell him how I feel, but I kind of backfired.
I haven't ever been told that but I think I'd accept it if I was. There are some types of people/styles that I'm just not attracted to... eg that "spikey dykey" look just turns me off even though about 75% of lesbians seem to do that X( So if someone told me I wasn't their type, that would be sad, but it's life. You can't expect everyone to like your look. Although I understand how it could be discouraging and painful.
no one has told me that... but the best you can do if it happens is to move one cause you might be someones typr
How rude! Just brush it off and don't let it get to you Anyways, the whole "not my type" thing? To be honest, I think it's ALL a bunch of nonsense.
Hahahaha thanks you always put a smile on my face...like it hurt, but I think I'm over it now. It still doesnt make sense to me.
