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What do you look for in a friend/best-friend?

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  1. Burnedcloset

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    I just want someone I can talk about anything with, and they won't judge me. They have to be nice though.
     
    #1 Burnedcloset, Nov 23, 2014
  2. Clancularius

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    I would look for someone who would accept me for who I was and at the same time has a sense of humor and is fun to just hang out with. :eusa_danc
     
    #2 Clancularius, Nov 23, 2014
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    Loyalty- someone who won't run off when you need help and only come to you when they need help.
    A sense of humour- someone you can laugh with (because inside jokes are essential in a friendship)
    Support- someone who will put aside judgment as I would for them
     
    #3 Randomcloud, Nov 23, 2014
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    Someone who isn't a back-stabbing compulsive liar.
    That'd be nice.
     
    #4 DinelodiiGitli, Nov 23, 2014
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    Someone who would still be friends with me after finding out I'm gay.
     
    #5 Tardis2020, Nov 23, 2014
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    I look for someone I can be myself around, who shares atleast a few things similar to me. Someone who isnt afraid to be a dork in puplic. Has to be able to accept me for who I am. I dont put up with haters or liars, I wont be used. I want someone who can be fun but also at the same time can be serious when the situation arrives
     
    #6 Summer1110, Nov 23, 2014
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    Someone I can be weird with, and they'll be weird back.

    You can't accept the fact that I ramble about everything? We can't be friends.
    It's awesome to ramble to someone, knowing that every word of it's being read and not skimmed, like most people.
     
    #7 heyguyswhatsup, Nov 23, 2014
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    the same things i look for in a relationship honestly +o

    minus sex. well ok maybe sex 2
     
    #8 kageshiro, Nov 23, 2014
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    I don't actively look for anything really. Either we hit it off or we don't.
     
    #9 Jonathan, Nov 23, 2014
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    Someone who I can talk to and be comfortable with
     
    #10 gamergirl689, Nov 24, 2014
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    That and someone who has the same frequency, the same drive as me (!)
     
    #11 Passion Desire, Nov 24, 2014
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    Similar interests
    Not whiny or overly-dramatic
     
    #12 NingyoBroken, Nov 24, 2014
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    This pretty much sums it up.
     
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    Really I just want them to be there for me.
     
    #14 Rainbows~Exist, Nov 24, 2014
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    Someone who doesn't only wanna talk to me when their " best friend" isnt around

    Someone who is weird as hell like me
     
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    They have to be kind, honest, and not a back stabber. They have to be able to make me laugh.
     
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    I am usually anyone friend as long we click but they have to have their own Job and Transportation and be drug free.


    They have to be able to put there 50 percent into the friendship with calling,texting,messaging asking to hang out.
     
    #17 ok455, Nov 25, 2014
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    You probably want a dog... A true friend will not negatively judge you but will politely steer you in the right direction once they understand you. Also, to get good friends, you have to be a good friend. No one likes to have someone who just complains to them without showing interest in what's going on with their own lives. As my mom says, everyone has their own difficulties. If you want niceness, it's the same recipe. I can't tell you how many obnoxious people think I'm a close friend to them because I am too polite to excuse myself.
     
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    Someone I can jump fences with and have a drink with and someone who I can cry in front of and someone who I can go to concerts with and someone who laughs at my stupid jokes and someone that listens and loves me regardless of all my baggage.

    Yeah :slight_smile:
     
    #19 elliot96, Nov 25, 2014
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    Really just a person with a sense of humor and a good set of moral values. And of course, isn't freaked out by the fact that I'm bi. It's kind of a deal breaker lol
     
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