Question to lesbians

Re: Question to LGBT people (lesbians in particular)

I honestly think you can answer this for yourself. :icon_bigg

You are straight. What if I asked you the question?

Thus, I think the conclusion is quite clear. =) Things usually come naturally, but you can definitely learn new techniques/things on the way. =)

 

A lot of us haven't even had any sexual experiences (myself included), so it just comes naturally. It's not really different than other people quite honestly. You'd be surprised at how many straight people hate penetration or have weird and odd kinks, so It's really just a matter of figuring yourself out.

 

I did with a girl at 12 and yeah it all came pretty naturally

 

It just sort of happens. You do what feels right.

 

i think it comes naturally. i mean anyone who tells you that they haven't googled something for advice and/or seen a little porn before they got their freak on is definitely lying to you. nobody wants to leave a bad impression. but if you're asking if i sat in my room and thought long and hard about what i was going to do - no. sex is a natural act among all living species.

 

It's not a retarted question. =) You were wondering about it, so you asked. There's nothing wrong with that. =)

 

I hadn't slept with another woman but I always thought we could rub our kitties together . that came naturally I guess , I didn't learn about eating out til I was an adult .

 

I started with men, and my first time with a woman only came when I was a little older. I guess I'd seen porn so that would give anyone a rough idea, but since then my practices have evolved into less gay sex and more of just whatever comes naturally, and I came to that decision alone.
I think in most instances of female gay sex it bears almost no similarity to porn that caters to the male gaze. The French film 'Blue Is The Warmest Colour' follows the story of a young girl who meets a lesbian and falls in love, and there are a few quite interesting sex scenes where she's experimenting. So far that's been the most 'natural' representation of lesbian sex I've seen in popular culture.
But everyone does it differently.

 

You TOTALLY misunderstood. I mean what the fuck. Seriously?

 

no reason to be shitty about someone misinterpreting crappy grammatical text on an internet forum. relax.

 

Yeah, ok. I think you want to ask yourself a serious question: "Am I truly non-homophobic enough to write sensitively about homosexual characters in stories?" The OP question wasn't retarded...just one that a little open-mindedness could have answered on its own. But that in addition to this readiness to see pedophilia in the LGBT community does make me ask the question. And it's one that as a writer you should be asking yourself.

 

That's exactly what I was thinking. Add to that the whole "this question is retarded" comment.


As far as my own personal answer to this question goes... Don't most people masturbate? Sex is a very natural thing. Obviously techniques are shaped over time, but the basics should come naturally. It's not like lesbian sex is any less "natural" than straight sex. I would argue that it's actually much easier to figure out.

 

Your assumption has some very VERY serious implications if it were true. Lets make this abundantly clear: you were unnerved because of what YOU ASSUMED and what was going on in YOUR head, which has absolutely nothing to do with me or my response. You dont get to just brush it off and go "oh, oops! i'm so sorry"

 

I personally have a problem with people saying they're "tolerant". It suggests that there is something wrong, but one "tolerates" it. It's not a matter of tolerance, it's a matter of acceptance. Just putting it out there.