straight lesbians

You might think about getting to know people... building a friendly relationship, then steering to the bedroom... looking for what you have in common, and having a good time together first...

There is a percentage of bisexual women amongst them who really might go along with a lesbian relationship...


The language you use is kind of funny but I think you would attract more positive people if using nicer language

(*hug*)

 

I agree with Jay.

Not trying to be rude I just really dislike people who treat women like that, but I will keep my comments to myself. I don't think all the girls you are meeting are straight, especially if they are having sex with you. I think if you gave a girl a chance you would be surprised and you might find someone who actually would want to develop a relationship with you, other than just sex. No harm in trying right?

 

I think you sound slightly angry, OP.


1. Listen to a nice french song to calm down

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RvK19xgAxSU


2. Lol, ok now more seriously:

I kinda see your point. To many straight guys these days most women are bisexual and lesbian leaning, but from your point of view (as a lesbian) you see them as "attention wh*res" who are totally straight and just confused.

I think you (and both genders) should have realistic assessment of the situation. All types of girls exist - bisexual, straight and lesbian and the fact that some are visiting gay clubs is obvious that if you have the right "game" and charm you can attract them and then...bed them or have longterm relationship or so on.

This is how i see things are straight guy who also lacks huge experience with women but it sounds very logical to me.

 

Why do you feel you have to pick up women in bars? No judgement; to each their own. But you probably aren't gonna find the best women in bars. And alcohol does affect people's judgement and decisions. Maybe just leave women in bars alone?

 

I KINDA get where you are coming from... I am bi. Currently dating a man and a woman. Been with just men. Been with just women. Been in love with a woman once, but it didn't work out for various reasons not because she was a woman. Just like for whatever reasons it didn't work out with previous men. But if I meet someone who I am interested in, I don't pretend to be straight or a lesbian, I let them know straight up that I am bi. If that's not cool with them, I move on. But I have seen the straight girl hook ups. My roomie is totally straight but has had girl kisses and even hookups when she drinks to be "cool" and that really does get to me. Especially when she has mad negative comments about my sexuality (not intentionally to be mean or anything but still)... I see this behavior as "fake bi" as you see it as "fake lesbian" especially when they identify as straight. But I don't make a big deal out of it. And I try not to judge them.... they may not be as fake as I think they are. But yes it does seem that way. I personally would never get with a straight girl, because that is just never gonna work. And I don't like one night stands either. But that is just me.

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* has made
not has mad sry typo

 

That's understandable. I mean I understand finding it hard to take some people seriously...

 

You might try a little better class of joint; perhaps one where all of the furniture matched...

 

For someone who says she isn't angry, you sound quite angry and like you don't want to listen to anyone's point of view, so I struggle to wonder why write your original post if you aren't going to take all comments on board as at least constructive. You might not agree, but you don't need to get hostile to the people who are offering their own words of a advice or support. I think Jay was right.. You might be judging them unfairly and it might be best to at least speak to them and get to know them outside a setting where alcohol is one of the main beverages served before you pin them as being straight and only looking for a woman cause they are mad at men..

 

Calm the fuck down.

 

What I find funny is when a girl does some lesbians wrong they call them straight girls lol
Are you sure some of these women aren't bisexual ? I would think their bi , I know there are some straight women like that but usually they can't put up the I'm into women act for long .

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I know this is wrong but I found this comment funny :roflmao:
Raven you did it again you made me fall off my chair again .

---------- Post added 26th Nov 2014 at 02:07 PM ----------

If most women are lesbian or bisexual how come I keep meeting straight chicks
If a girl is truly straight a lesbian with a lot of charm still wouldn't be able to get her .
No one can change anyone's sexuality and bed them with charm .
The woman would have to either be bisexual or bi curious in the first place .
Same if this was a guy trying to charm lesbians he wouldn't have a chance no matter how good he was .

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Maybe your friend is in denial about being bisexual she could actually be bisexual and not a fake bi maybe she's scared . One of my friends is like this and she use to say negative things about me being a lesbian and later came out as bisexual to me . Some people are not comfortable knowing they have same sex attraction so they take it out on others by making fun of them . What you should do is if she ever comes out to you be there for support .

 

Haha, I can actually sympathise with using curse words when calm, or just mildly annoyed. I use "rude" language all the sodding time, and being mad or angry has nothing to do with it.

I don't get it when people think I'm angry just because I use some strong words. I also dislike it when they believe that I just can't think of more clever or smart wording. No, quite often, rude but direct language is just spot on. As you said, if you're offended, step outside and experience the real world. :lol:

 

That's been my experience. I've heard straight women on occasion joke about dating women because all the guys they've dated were jerks, but if someone calls them on it
they suddenly are straight again.

 

Stocking, your post was too long for me to quote on my phone. But to the reply to my post, yes, you might be right. The only reason I don't think my roomie is in denial is because she only hits on women when she is drunk. But maybe it's just easier for her to go there when she is drunk. Personally, I'd never hit on a woman when she is drunk cause I'd wanna make sure her feelings are real and had nothing to do with alcohol. But who knows about my roomie. If she ever does come out as bi, yes I would totally support her!