The most overrated problem.

I just feel utterly indifferent regarding the whole penis size thing, as I don't get it.

I'm happy, my partners are happy, I love myself and my body.
No fucks were given. (Pun intended)

 

I can get this being an issue for the straight community but not the gay community
With gay men there are two penises in play so why would someone get upset if someone is small and don't gay men do other things besides anal sex

 

yeah I can't say I really get it either, it's not something you can change by working out or changing your diet, unless you're willing to go to extreme surgical means, and the results aren't even guaranteed if you do.

I was dating a woman years ago that actually apologized to me for not having larger breasts. I was quite honestly stunned into silence for a moment while I processed what I'd just heard. I quickly assured her that I was in no way disappointed with any part of her body. her even bringing up the subject completely stumped me, I certainly would never tell a woman that I wished her breasts were larger. all I require is functional nipples and access to them, lol

 

Nobody worth being with is going to give a damn about how big you are. I'm sure everyone has their own image of "the perfect penis", but it's just so unimportant compared to who it's attached to. Besides, there's pros and cons to both a big one and a small one -- I think the average is probably right around that sweet spot.

I don't know, maybe it's a little bit different for people who are looking purely for casual sex, but I just can't envision a scenario where this would even remotely diminish my attraction to someone I really cared about.

 

i'm glad i don't have to deal with shit like this, people make such a big deal out of dick size. most of my friends say that they just prefer someone average size because if it's too big - it hurts..... buuuuuut i wouldn't know anything about this category.

 

I suppose this is a slight upside to not being sexual. This kinda stuff does not run through my mind, nor do I care anyways.

 

Penis size doesn't even matter that much anyway. It's not the size but how you work it. And some (straight) men with big dicks are out of luck since some vaginas are made to be small or come with physical conditions that can't support it, so they'll never be able to have sex with their partner that way. Even for gay guys, anal can hurt if you're too big since it hits the wrong spots. And if you're an exclusive bottom or an oral only person, it doesn't even matter at all.

 

Well, then I'm apparently someone not worth being with! I do care about size.

My best response to this is truly that if I have to listen to the whole "No Fats/No Femmes" thing, then I'm going to be part of the "No Teeny Tiny Tool" Club.

 

Yeah. Breast size does not matter to me at all.

To me, if anyone dumps you for because your penis or breasts are too small, that just tells you how little they truly care about you, and you shouldn't want to date them anymore.

 

Idk about gay men... I know a gay friend of mine (we talk sex all the time lol) says he likes them big. But I doubt he has ever rejected a guy over size... But idk why you would want big if you do, do anal. Big hurts for me. Anally or vaginally. My bf is 6.5 and it's almost too much... Anal is off limits because it hurts too much even with prep and lube (much to his disappointment)... But size should never matter. As far as sex goes, SKILL is a much more important factor.

 

Who cares? I already said in another topic but will repeat it in here, most succesfull lover had a penis at the size of my thumb. No one ever made me feel wanted like he did, no one ever held me with such passion as he did. So for me it wasn't a problem even if he didn't have penis at all, as long as there is a way for me to satisfy them sexually.

So if someone think less of a man because of their penis size... I pity the fool.

 

Dude! This is power! I agree

 

I agree with mbanema, everything has its pros and cons. It depends on the preference of the person. =) If one prefers smaller than average or larger than average, that's okay, it's not up to me to judge that person. However, there are many more important things than the size of the penis.. So yes, it's very overrated.

 

Guess I'll go against the grain and say it matters somewhat to me. I'm picky in general about how a penis looks. Some just gross me out, plain and simple. And it's hard to have sex when something repulses me. I just can't get turned on. Can't enjoy it. Guess I am inherently shallow. I can't help it. But I generalized this to gross looking penises. A 3" penis would more than likely fit into this category but it's not limited to small penises. Good news is id say I "like" about 20% of penises, neutral to about 70% and am repulsed by about 10%. I'm more of an ass guy. I'm not much if a relationship person anymore anyways!

 

I do wish mine was a little longer But in general, I agree.

 

Generally speaking, penis size isn't an issue and I have never rejected a guy because of his size. Yes, there are other things to do besides anal.

That said, I am a big guy who likes to bottom from time to time. Three inches is pretty much the lower limit for the math to work out. I wouldn't say I would be upset, but I would be disappointed if a guy were smaller than that because it would take a very fun activity off the table. I have met several guys who were smaller than that. We did other things and had fun. I actually invited some of them over again. Yes we had fun, but it doesn't mean that at the same time I wasn't a bit disappointed that we couldn't do more.


The truth is that 99.9% of guys are plenty big enough to satisfy me and that it's actually those that are above average that I'm less likely to bottom for.

 

I do think size, shape, width are all important, but only one factor to take into consideration as part of an overall relationship. Intimacy is an important part of any relationship, and both partners need to be physically attracted to the other; at the same time, the physical aspects need to work for both parties.

I believe it would be a bit close minded to suggest that physical attributes should not matter so long as each person are emotionally connected. In the long wrong, sexual compatibility will have a defining impact on any relationship. So if a guy finds physical attributes important to ensure sexual satisfaction, such a position should not be diminished or looked down upon.

Just my two cents