have you ever been in love with someone straight?

Me? Not really, as it was not real love. I've been in relationships with straight women, but saying it was love is not true.

It's not uncommon. I know someone who is gay who was in love with another guy, who happened to be straight.

 

I've been in love with a straight women. Well last time I checked she was straight. However she did admit that she was in love with me when we were younger but now she identifies as straight.

 

Love, is not a word that i would use to describe a one sided infatuation between two people.

 

All of my crushes have been straight.

So, yeah.

 

My first crush was straight, I confessed, he rejected me. We remained friends.

 

Of the five really strong crushes that I can recall, the first three were straight and the last two are pretty close to impossibly unobtainable. I always want what I can't have. =/

 

Many times.

 

Yep. Whatever, I don't really care. It hurts a little, yeah, but I eventually get over it.

 

Sort of. I had a college roommate that I was in love with. We were great friends and did everything together. He was a year ahead of me and when he graduated he stuck around in town for my final year. When I graduated I was going to India for a year to travel. Word got back to me that he was going to ask me to stay. I wasn't sure what I really thought of that--it was a great opportunity (I got a travel fellowship) and he didn't really have any standing to ask, etc. At any rate he never directly asked, instead when all my friends threw me a big going away party he showed up late, drunk, started to cry and passed out. I left the next morning without seeing him again. I didn't come out until after college and when I did most of my college friends were like "oh yeah, you and X." But no, I didn't even tell him until after college. When we finally talked about it there was sort of a long silence and finally he said "I guess that's like a whole lifestyle thing?" My response was that yeah I supposed it was but I was happy. Then after another long silence he replied "I could never do that." Another long silence. "I'm sorry." He actually ended up marrying a mutual (female) friend. I have a lot of bittersweet memories about the whole thing...

 

Yes, I've thought I was in love with both straight guys and girls. But now I realize that I've never been in love

 

Yes, I've had quite a few crushes on straight women - however, this happens less and less now. Or, at least, I'm better at nipping them in the bud

 

I don't know if what I was feeling was love or just a crush. Most of my crushes are straight. The two strongest ones, anyways, are bi and lesbian. The bi one is immature and I don't know if I could ever be in a successful relationship with him, and I don't know if the lesbian knows I exist (well, she did say hi to me, but I don't know if she cares for me at all). And the worst part is that I'm a trans guy crushing on a lesbian; if she were to like me, it would only be for my body, I guess. I'm not a girl.

I've had a crush on the bi friend for about four years now and the lesbian for a half a year.

 

Well yes.

 

Not so much in love but definately had a massive soft spot for a girl who used to go to my gym.. didn't find out she was straight until I plumped up the bottle to ask her... ooooh damn it!

 

I've had crushes on straight people, it's annoying. It wasn't love, so no, I have never been in love with a straight girl.

 

What gay guy hasnt have a crush on a straight dude?

 

Kind of. One of my close friends who is straight, was my first male "crush" but even then it has mostly sizzled out.

 

Straight girl? Nope, never will.

Straight guy? No but, it could happen. Really unlikely. I don't think I could easily be friends with a straight guy. I don't know why. Maybe it's just my thoughts right now. I just don't think a straight guy would want me as a friend . Not that I want to fall for a straight guy.

 

Yeah; I had a huge crush on a girl last year who I'm pretty sure is straighter than a pole. Whoops. I haven't talked to her much this year as we don't have any classes, but whenever I see her those butterflies reappear just a bit