I work retail and i was tying stuff down at work. I saw this cute guy kind of lingering around me. Kind of looking over at me and smiling. After a while he comes over to me and says "do you need help with that?" He had a gay sounding voice. I got kind of shy and scared and said "No, thanks though, but its really hard haha" he then said "I don't doubt it" and continued on his way. What should i make of this? was he trying to pick me up?
If you're single and he comes around again, try making a move and see what comes from it. The worse that happens is he'll say no but I don't think that'll happen!
OMG you lucky duck! It sounds like he was trying to pick you up!!!!! Let us know what happens!!! ---------- Post added 3rd Dec 2014 at 08:43 AM ---------- Nothin better than being approached by a cute person. It's like: 'have the gods of love sent you here?'
Yup, I'd say so too. Haha, don't worry - I would have reacted in exactly the same way. Still, you live and learn - next time you might be more prepared for it. :icon_wink
A high pitch flirty voice i only hear it from gay guys macho or femme ---------- Post added 3rd Dec 2014 at 09:14 AM ---------- Of course only when they flirt
Next time you see him, go up and talk to him immediately. Get his number or something. ---------- Post added 3rd Dec 2014 at 11:29 AM ---------- All's fair in love and war!
Yeeeeaaah I kinda guessed that's what he meant (while hoping it wasn't) nonetheless it still rubs me the wrong way that the single defining factor by which we are supposed to assume the cute guy's alleged homosexuality is something he has no control of. I'm not gonna try to stir an argument about it since dblockdavis didn't seem to mention it with malice but I would still like to say that singling out a stranger's sexuality based solely on extraneous, superficial factors outside of their control is not cool. That's all. Carry on with the thread.
"But, it's really hard" ....."I don't doubt it"....he wants the D.........xD Lol I had to. Sexual innuendos are the best.
I'm surprised so many people went "oh he wants to marry you, woohoo", having so little information. I doubt he'll intentionally seek you out again, so prepare for that possibility as the idea of "waiting" for him to show up, will wreck you. If he does show up, i'd avoid being flirty on the workplace, just give him your number and continue doing your job. The idea is to not seem too desperate, and confused by all this.