I got to thinking. If you could, would you want to act/look more like the "gay/lesbian stereotype", or more "straight"? (Not saying you shouldn't be yourself. Just if you had the choice) Honestly, the only thing I would change to be more "straight" is my voice. When I get excited I have "the gay voice". Oh and maybe my body language but, that's more awkward and agender then gay though.
If I had the choice, I would continue to look and act the way I do. I am, in appearance, male, but neither masculine nor feminine.
Straight, definitely. I don't like to see a woman who is more attractive than I am and know it's because she is not gay.
Well I fit into the straight woman sterotype I suppose. I am very fem. BUT when I open my mouth and say something about a hot woman or something, then I am not so "straight" lol.
I don't fit in either stereotype to begin with. Obviously I'm not that feminine (I never wear skirts/dresses/makeup) but I'm not masculine either.
I would not change anything about myself just cause I don't have many physically "gay" features. I wouldn't mind having a super muscular body.
I'd like to be a bit more muscular which I'm working on. I look like a human so I suppose that works. Edit: Awww yyyyeeeeaaahhhh, 300 posts! *insert primitive celebratory dance here*
I dunno. I would love to look a little more masculine and not be mistaken for female anymore, that would be really really nice. I'm not really trying to be straight acting but I sometimes feel I fall into that.
I can't do the butch thing , it's just not me :dry: I don't think I will change a thing , I'd just want more females to date .
In the pictures you had up before, you looked quite masculine. For me, I would prefer to look a little more fem. Lose this freaking' weight. I could stand to lose 50 pds. I wish I could have better posture and more hair to style. I'd love to have a tighter ass because I'm a bottom. It's not bad for what I weigh I suppose.
I like myself the way I am. I am pretty masculine, but not like a super macho guy or anything. I just wish some emotion could be shown without being portrayed as 'weak.' I generally am not emotional or open with people, but I am very confrontational. And I feel like a lack of a vaccum for me emotionally is responsible for my confrontational attitude. The emotions I usually display are more aggressive.
I don't think anyone should change themselves unless they are not happy how they forced to act... I like myself. Feminine act looks so fake on me or macho act. I am who I am... your man next door with brooding face. You would probably hate me unless you know me. People tend to say I look intimidating/cold/distant/scary before they know me. Batman in me likes it. :badgrin:
The only thing I wish I could change is my style. I'm overweight and the clothing choices around my city are limited. I could go to Penningtons which is 100% female wear or I can nit pick shirts in the male sections at other clothings stores in the mall that rarely have my size. If they had a menswear store that where for plus size men around here, you bet your sweet pickles I would be headed down there and picking out clothes. Also, because I'm bigger, things like jeans are 50$ a pair and shirts are around 20-30$ depending on the brand . So every year I want to get 2 pairs of new jeans and a few new shirts. that would more than likely add up to 100-200$. Not that I mind but.. paying for clothing that I'm not exactly keen about... It's better than wearing out dated clothes I've had since grade 9.. but still.
I really wouldn't want to do anything more straight but given one wish to be answered I'd go without all the body hair! I love my bearish brothers but I aint into this hair every-dam- where! If I dont groom on a schedule I become a chia head after a month or so. Not the look I am going for!
I feel the same as Fallingdown7. I'm not feminine but I'm not stereotypically masculine either. I don't want to change the way I am, I feel comfortable being who I am. =]
