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Ever Realized that You were more like the stereotype than you first thought.

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Justinian20, Dec 5, 2014.

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  1. Justinian20

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    This is kind of funny, I originally thought I wasn't in any way like the stereotype of the flamboyant and effeminate gay man, it turns out that I am very much the opposite of what I originally thought, but then the way I differentiate from the stereotype is in my interests and also an extremely masculine voice.

    This is not saying all gay men are like the stereotype because personally I don't think much about the stereotype, like I know a majority do not fit the stereotype. I personally love super masculine guys who can protect me and cuddle me close to them so I can feel safe(yes I know super effeminate). I've also noticed a lot of the guys here consider themselves the masculine gay guys and I'm like on the other side of the spectrum.

    I would say my flamboyant side is not super obvious, but I do have it, I sing and dance all the time. But you could probably tell I'm more of the queen gay guy than I am a masculine gay guy. But I am a man so I personally say I'm masculine no matter how effeminate I am.

    I've never met any gay guys in the real world but I know I like Masculine guys already, you could probably tell by me going down to the beach and just looking all lovestruck around all the really muscular guys.
     
    #1 Justinian20, Dec 5, 2014
  2. The Virgo

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    When i found out how much i wanna do drag and love high heels e.e
     
    #2 The Virgo, Dec 5, 2014
  3. gazwkd

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    I can honestly say I've never been a stereotype and people have commented on that fact :wink:

    Although it really doesn't matter as long as you're happy with yourself :wink:
     
    #3 gazwkd, Dec 5, 2014
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    I have :slight_smile: I am very girly and feminine in looks, voice and personality but my actions and feelings are rather stereotypical I guess! I always feel VERY protective when I'm around girls I like or think are cute and in my heart all I want to do is pick them up and carry them gently to safety if they get in trouble. I am a total sucker for being the hero just as much as being the victim. I also notice I like to get down and dirty and I love the outdoors. I love injuries because they look cool and I really want to own a road bike. I also like guy stuff but I prefer my skirts and lipstick. I love shooting games and so much other stuff. I've also noticed when I climb into a truck or big vehicle I like grabbing onto the bar or steering wheel and forcing myself into it like a man on a mission. :wink:

    But society views me as a feminine sweet girl so it's rather funny how the inside of me sometimes doesn't reflect the outside.
     
    #5 ChloeKiss, Dec 5, 2014
  6. XenaxGabby

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    I am quite girly but I haven't worn a dress or skirt in two years. I own a few. It's just that pants are so comfy.
     
    #6 XenaxGabby, Dec 6, 2014
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